4.9K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Men are biologically driven to have sex with as many partners as possible. Think about humans (homo sapiens have been around about half a million years, with earlier humanoids going back more than 2 million years) prior to about 200 years ago: men were ordered to go to war by kings and leaders, or to defend their town/city-state, and so men died in large numbers. Further, men died a lot just working farms (horses and oxen and even cows can be deadly at times), not to mention construction, mining, sailing, and other dangerous occupations. This often led to a shortage of men - but women NEEDED men, because few women were capable of the back-breaking work of farming, much less construction and other things. Very few people lived in relatively modern cities - most people lived a rural existence and even people who lived in cities where SOME specialization could occur would still be subject to war, crime, disease, and dangerous jobs.
So, with a shortage of men - especially young, strong, virile men, as these would be the ones most likely to die in war or in dangerous occupations - men sleeping around or taking multiple wives meant that far more people would survive, and it reduced the chance of humans dying off. That's basic Darwinian Natural Selection.
With these base instincts in mind, when you have a man who is good-looking, charismatic, and/or financially successful, he's likely to be widely attractive - LOTS of women will desire him, and he can easily get a whole lot of them into bed. So, why wouldn't he? Such a man has no need to settle down with just one woman - there's a line out the door waiting for their turn, even knowing full well that he's a player, because he's CONFIDENT and ATTRACTIVE - and the man knows this only too well. Such men also tend to be selfish and self-centered, because they CAN GET AWAY WITH IT, because women will let them. A woman can see him treating another woman badly, and she'll completely ignore that because all she's thinking about is that SHE is going to get him for herself. And then she's shocked when she gets treated just like he treated the previous woman.
Why do you think Brad Pitt cheated on Jennifer Aniston and Angelina Jolie (among a long list of others)? Why do you think Tiger Woods - even with a hot Swedish model at home - slept around with a bunch of other women? Why are there pro athletes with 16 kids from 15 different women? Why have some of them slept with 2000, 3000, 4000 women? BECAUSE THEY CAN - women will let them, because they will completely ignore or rationalize his past behavior simply because she finds him attractive, and for many, because she naively believes that she can change him.
Are there a few exceptions - hot guys who don't sleep around? Yes, a few, but very few relative to the hot guys who are players. But women still go for the players and ignore the "boring guys" - the ones actually interested in relationships and who are capable of being faithful. If it sounds like I'm putting the blame on women, I AM - because women are the gatekeepers of sex, and women WANT to be the gatekeepers of sex. And that's fine, but if you do a poor job of gatekeeping, you can't blame the guy for that. If you date a known player, who your friends warn you about, or who has played your friends in the past, well, what did you expect? If you pick the hot guy that you know 500 other girls are crazy for just in your town, what did you expect?30 Reply
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+1 yFor me, I was called a player/womanizer, but to me that's a bad person and I'm not a bad person. I flirted, dated, had sex with, had deeper intimate emotional connections with, and loved many, many women. Why? Because I love people. I love men and women, but I'm only sexually attracted to women, and they are often sexually attracted to me as well. Why wouldn't I engage in activities mutually pleasing to both of us?
I'm a lover, not a player. I genuinely care about others, and I think connecting with a lover in mutually consensual pleasure giving/receiving is one of the most beautiful experiences you can have on the planet.
I have seen and heard lots of negativity around this: Womanizer, insecure, player, fear of commitment, lack of self esteem, narcissistic, inconsiderate, toxic masculinity, selfish, etc. (Honestly, I stole some of these adjectives from answers already present, but you get the idea, lots of negative words). I do agree there can be people who display these qualities, who are jumping from one partner to the next, but I don't feel any truth to the accusation (s) in my personal path.
One exception: selfishness; I believe all humans are "selfish" but I don't think it's a bad thing. It is natural and good to give yourself some focus, attention to your needs, to focus inwardly and think of yourself. It's only when it is extreme that it becomes dangerous and unhealthy, like narcissism or sociopath.
Most of these negative perspectives to me are easily dismissible, and explained by things like jealousy/envy of men, or women's frustration at not being able to control someone else's autonomy. Another big one is coming from a different paradigm, where monogamy is everyone's goal and there can be no other possible objective in life. Your self worth is determined by having one and only one life partner, and any deviation from that norm is a reflection of a faulty personality or void. Let me address a few specifically:
Inconsiderate: What's inconsiderate? Literally, to lack consideration for other people's feelings and desires. Men say this because it's inconsiderate of the player to "hog" all the women's attention but the truth is those men aren't getting any more or less due to the player. They are trying to shove their own issues of not being attractive onto the player. It's not their fault they're unattractive, it's the player's fault for being more attractive than them. This is BS. Women say "inconsiderate" because they don't like sharing, they are selfish and want all the player's attention for themselves. So they get pissy when he is generous not just with them, but with everyone. It's "inconsiderate" of the player not to live his whole life revolving around just them. So you see, "inconsiderate" is just a way of crying boohoo I didn't get what I wanted. You will see a common theme here when I explain the next one...03 Reply- +1 y
Fear of commitment: Women say this because often when they find a desirable man, they want to monopolize him. To lock him down and own him for the rest of his life, to keep him from being free to do as he likes. But they don't want to say it like that, because that would make them look selfish and controlling. So instead they try to implant a suggestion in his head: that being with one person (them) is what he should want. Is it better to paint with a single color on your canvas than to use the whole palette? Preferable to choose one food for the rest of your life, or to explore the "menu"? Again, women want what they want, and if they can't have it, the responsibility doesn't lay with them, it must be pushed off onto someone else. I personally love commitment and my heart is quite committed to many people whom I value now and for the foreseeable future; they always have a mansion in my heart, and I treasure them. If anything, I see commitment as a desirable thing but too often people confuse commitment as being a synonym with monogamy or exclusivity. It's not, you can check your thesaurus. Commitment to me means something much bigger and more beautiful than exclusivity; it means connection and reciprocity.
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This subject damn it's so extensive, I could write a book. I've actually considered it. One more big one: the paradigm shift (exclusivity vs inclusivity).
From an exclusivity perspective, yes, having multiple partners is ugly. It's all the negative adjectives used. Your goal is one bond, any deviation from that is a waste of time and energy, it taints you.
From an inclusivity perspective, sharing is beautiful. When I find someone, really find them and see inside to who they are and discover the amazing treasure of their inner beauty, my first thought is not "oooh this precious treasure, I must hide it and keep it all to myself for my enjoyment only.". My attitude is "Oh my god, babe, you are so beautiful and amazing, why don't you let the world see what you show me? I want to encourage you to blossom and grow and step out into the light, so that everyone can enjoy the energy you have, the love that is so fulfilling." - +1 y
I'm not talking specifically about sex, I'm talking about all those beautiful things I've found in women when they get intimate and trust someone. It blows me away how beautiful people are inside, but they don't trust each other and so they hide themselves. I wish we could blow the doors down and engage one another the way I have experienced so many times with lovers. It really isn't about sex the way people get so focused on the physical, it's so much more than that. I feel really blessed and privileged to be attractive as I feel I must get a whole different experience of life because of this, the way people open up to me. But I don't want to be selfish, I don't want this just for myself, I want everyone to know it and feel it. And I'm also not going to stop loving everyone, just because one person wants to control me and keep me as a pet. I'm no one's pet, I will meet you as an equal, both of us independent and free to be who we are now and forever. If you stay with me, welcome. If you decide to leave, the world is yours as well, emotional bonds are meant to be the kind that strengthen us and keep us more connected, not the type of bonds which restrict us from moving.
Again, it could be a book lol
I never get why women whine about womanizers / players. Women being easy, after all, is the main reason why the guy is as he is. Cheap, sluttish, etc., women offer a "buffet" and make it appealing for a guy to be a womanizer / player. Once bored with "easy" B there's always "easy" C, D, E, & all the way through the alphabet to choose from.
On occasion it's insecurity issues, very bad experiences that make them leery of commitment, etc. But mostly it's because, as said, cheap women who are easy to get into bed. There's no effort, they're as such not interesting beyond sex, and once the "player" / "womanizer" has had enough he just moves on. Plenty more to choose from.
Seriously. It is, in many ways, that simple. Why?
Because women who have self-respect/esteem and decent standards very rarely have issues with players and womanizers. They are not "easy" and as such the typical womanizer / player doesn't want to be bothered. Why put in the effort with Woman A when woman G on the other end of the bar is, figuratively & literally, easy.42 Reply- +1 y
So true I agree. I notice now a days woman don't have self respect for them selfs. I am old school myself but from the way 21 year old woman carelessly just whore around with different man can't be a good house wife. Now a days 21 years olds don't know how to cook , clean or managed a home.
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@Alwayreckles93 so true. I want to be married and i date around a lot but I've never been with a girl that meets even basic wife criteria. So how can i be expected to settle down with any of them? Totally ridiculous.
My current boyfriend used to be a player. He told me it was because he used to have trust issues, and also because the girls he ‘played’ he wasn’t actually interested in, he just liked the attention and the sex. He was actually looking for a relationship but with someone he clicked with and who wasn’t easy and he hadn’t found that yet.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI went through a phase like this when I was in my late teens/early 20s. It's not right and the things I'm about to say I don't think are good, but I'll explain why it happens. A few things which cause it:
1) The sex-obsessed culture we live in. Sex is everywhere. If you're not getting laid you're not "cool" and you're missing out.
2) The emasculation of our culture. Everything has been feminised, risk and competition are bad things. "Everyone's a winner, everyone gets a participation trophy". There are very few things a man can do to feel masculine anymore.
Making money seems like something that might make a man feel masculine but the world of work is feminised. It's worse if you work in a place with women but this applies even in a lot of traditionally masculine places. Health and safety gone mad.
One of the things we have left which makes us feel more masculine, and this is partly as a result of the sex-obsessed culture, is having sex with a lot of women. Guys who can't get laid much tend to be obsessed with video games because they get to live vicariously through their characters shooting shit up, competing with other guys, speaking in a un-PC manner.
3) The way married men are portrayed on TV. The player is portrayed as a "cool" guy who men and women respect. The married man is portrayed as a bumbling idiot who is under the thumb of his wife, who is smarter than him and talks down to him all the time. Basically being a married guy isn't seen as a respectable thing because of the programming. It's almost seen as an emasculating thing.
Even worse is that there are couples just like this, we see it, we don't wanna be that guy.
4) Many women are nightmares in relationships. Many men are no good, and the same goes for women. That programming as I just mentioned gets into women's heads too. They become hard work to deal with in relationships and make your life harder a lot of the time. They demand all of your time and smother you, nag you, try to change you, and then if you do change because you want the headache to stop they leave anyway.
Many women also just don't have what guys want in a girlfriend. They're good looking, but that's it. They won't cook for the dude, they won't do anything traditionally feminine because "they're not his slave". Feminist women in particular. Feminism has convinced many women just to not do things that most guys like. They put walls up themselves.
When you can get laid elsewhere why put up with the headache?
The only time such a man changes his mind is when he meets a woman who doesn't give him such a headache.10 Reply368 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. No, it's taking the path of least resistance. At least in my 20's it was. I had just come out of a divorce, and maybe the second or third date I went on I just thought I don't want to pay for this. I don't want these games. None of this favors me. I remember it clearly. I was in the middle of a date which was very dull, I just stood up, and left.
She chased me down asking what was wrong, and I dropped all the pretenses and BS. I said I was lonely, but this, all of this just wasn't doing it, I didn't want to pay for her dinner, or go through some BS courtship. If she was willing to pay for dinner and felt lonely too, well, we could go from there.
I can't even remember her name or what she looked like, but it was that moment of clarity, realizing that for all our differences, women get just as lonely as men do, and when that feeling is satisfied, we both start questioning why we felt lonely in the first place. That second moment of clarity was when I was cooking breakfast and realized I'd never see her again.
This repeated itself out more times than I can count, earnestly dating and yearning for companionship, then getting tired of putting forth so much effort. Eventually I met my wife, we have our family, and things are good between us. It's only recently that we've stopped seeing other women though and playing through that same scenario over and over again. For a night, week, month, then poof, they're gone. It just doesn't feel worth the effort to even try dating other women anymore.
If I was single at my age, I'd still own a house, go to church, all that good stuff. But all of us have an emptiness inside us. You do too or you wouldn't be asking the question. I hope you find someone who fills that void, and that you do the same for them. More likely is you get together and both continue to hunger though. That has just been my experience though.20 ReplyThe simple reason is that they (guys that behave in this manner) were not raised properly. I am a man and in my 20's I was a front man for a hardcore band and even though there was a party every night on tour I never had relations with any woman at any of the after parties. The main reason for this was the way I was raised. Now I was raised by a single mother (dad left when I was in the 6th grade) and even though that is not the right way to raise children (I wish I had a great relationship with my dad) she did a good job.
That kind of behavior is in movies, books, online, music and pretty much everywhere you look in society. And girls and women fuel that kind of behavior (not all but most) because no girl or young woman wants the gentle, kind hearted loving boyfriend, no they want the "bad boy"... I have talked to many young men that have horrible luck with women because they loose out to the "bad boys or bad guys"
I tell them that if a woman doesn't want or love you because you have honorable qualities than that is their problem, and never let another persons actions change the person who you are... yeah I'm rambling I get that : )00 Reply389 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. 1. It works: hot women can sense a man who has a lot of sex and women. When a woman has competition with other girls to get a guy she is more attracted. he's high value. She will be more likely to have sex or progress the relationship to secure an alpha males loyalty. Its biological in nature too. The one alpha will impregnate several females.
2. They have been disrespected by women: a lot of Alphas are nice guys turned bad. I am one of those. When I was a nice guy women would tell me threir feelings. They trusted me. I was the best friend... i was a virgin for 27 years. I would get used as an emotional tampon, cheated on, used for free drinks or free meals, etc. But the last 6 years as an Alpha I have now had 11 sexual partners, more female attraction, and im treated with more respect. Would you rather be a dork virgin or have sex with 11 people or 2 to 3 people a year forba consistent period of time? I never want to be a nice guy loser again. I look back at my 27 years of being "friends first" and "taking things slow" or "getting to know her" with a lot of shame. I was used so much. I was a pushover.
Fellas. Demand respect. Have standards. Date multiple women until you decide on the right girl. If you focus on one girl you will text her 24/7 and be needy. Guys understand.. even in a relationship women are texting dozens of guys for attention. Waiting for YOU to mess up. They don't want to fix relationship problems. One cheesy mistake and they swipe right and hook a new guy to date. Women have bvb ex boyfriends or dozens of horny male orbiters. All they need to do is wear spandex around town for a weekend and they have sex or a new date within hours.00 Reply1.4K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I know a couple guys that are like this. And when I find really interesting is down deep I don't think that they like women at all I think they hate them because the way they actually treat them if there with them for a long. Of time, it's seems like they are players, because they go from one woman to the other but anytime do with a woman for a long. Of time it's almost as if they hate women really interesting question I don't know the answer to it this is just what I say or what I have seen with my friends or actually people I know I don't really consider them friends
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+1 yIt seems to me that attractive men and women love the attention they get and are unwilling to give it up, even if they get into a relationship. They get so much joy and happiness from the attention they receive, especially from the opposite sex. Also, there are people who have the "gift of gab" and they love talking. They know what to say and how to say it. They won't give that up even if they are in a relationship. And some people are extroverted and just love mingling with people. So if you're in a relationship with someone and you see that person "flirting" with the opposite sex, it might not mean he/she is cheating on you.
00 Reply1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. They can!
They are part of the top 20% of men, that most women are running after. And so since women run after the top 20% of men, these men can afford to play with girls and break their hearts.
Men really love sex. And these top 20% can have it all.
It's the same as men asking "why women use men for their money" because well duh, men hand their money to them gold diggers.
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This is so wrong. Players are beyond unattractive and get kicked to the curb by quality women as soon as they find out. They only end up with girls who have already had about 100 penises inside them
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Well, I suppose you do have a point there. Quality women would pass them up for the other girls.
What kind of girls?
These girls
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No that’s a stereotype. I have friends who would go for that type and they just looked completely “normal”. Although I do think a lot of the ladies in that video would probably jump on that grotesque looking guy if they thought it might make them rich/famous.
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I just watched the rest of that video 🤣🤣🤣 talk about trash. No wonder we have problems with dating today
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I said they end up with the girls who’ve had a lot of 🍆 inside them and not the quality women. This proves the point!
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I hate to say it but even some of the girls I have been friends with in the past have not been quality women. For example, I wouldn’t want my brother to marry them.
+1 yOne of the top basic rules of empiric research: correlation is NOT causation (at least not necessarily). Yes, many playas are in fact insecure little bitches trying to compensate for lacking a mommy's hug, but that isn't necessarrily what led them to become playas. In fact, society's expectations of men, gender conditioning and all that shit is what makes boys grow up thinking their value is measured by the number of women they had and have. They should ofc be smarter than that, but they're usually not, so the blame is divided quite equally.
10 ReplyThe womanizer and the player are two completely different things. The womanizer is generically an individual with a strong insecurity hidden by a grandiosity practically a narcissist (weight pathology is a very slippery ground). He maximizes market performance i. e. having as many women as possible in order to be considered a lion when in reality he is a worm. Unfortunately, for them, many women have enormous cognitive biases and believe in love bombing strategies in the same way that children believe in Santa Claus.
In reality, the player is often a loser with women, who have treated him for years like a piece of cloth, have played with his feelings as a womanizer does with his victims. Therefore he has learned not to be fooled by women and to hold the bridle instead of having a bite in the mouth.10 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yThe reason that some guys are players or "womanizers" is most assuredly not because they are insecure. You have to be very secure in yourself to actually go for whatever girl you want... Since most of the time you will be rejected and those who are insecure will tend to shy away from that even happening.
The main reason why some men are players, is simply because they can. It would be rather difficult to be a player if one could not actually play the game successfully. Those who are insecure are generally shy and hesitant that they may get their fragile feelings hurt.
The thing about being a player is that eventually playing that game gets old and having "done it all"... being in a long-term relationship is that one thing left. As the name implies, that means to commit to that one woman, who after having all the rest... is the one I wish to stay with.00 Reply308 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Firstly there is a difference between player and ladies man so be aware of that
Most players I've come across are in one of two categories. They are either just flat out a dick or there is something that happened to them in thier past that now gives them intmacy or commitment issues and having multiple flings or ONS's is their coping mechanism
Speaking as something who used to use sexting as a way of dealing with pain and hurt let me tell you its not easy "facing the music" of my past issues. But everyone has to do it eventually and in their own time00 Reply
+1 ylogically. there is no way a guy can be players/womanizers if he is insecure , they are usually very confident , that is how he can make many women interested in him.
the reason is because those guys are highly selfish and have big ego,
you know , there are tons of men nowadays that seriously become emasculated , many guys nowadays have no balls to ask women out anymore , they are probably too fragile/afraid to get rejected , and guys who are players/womanizers are actually aware of that , they take advantage of situation for their own benefit00 Reply
+1 yI think it all depends on the guy, sometimes it's because they've been shit on so much that they just don't see trying for a relationship to be worth the inevitable pain anymore.
As for other men I think that they just don't appreciate the idea of commitment. The idea of having another person who needs you, the way that you need them. I find this to be especially true with people who are to be considered "above average" on the attractiveness scale because they can have anyone that they want, and they get stuck in that mindset.
In 2021, love is a game. You either play or get played. Love is dying. When I think of love, I think of the utter soul crushing, gut twisting feeling, that we need that person. But in 2021, selfishness is at a peak, and individuality is becoming more popular. Leaving certain people at the mindset that they don't need that companionship, or that they can replace it.10 Reply- 599 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
+1 yThey are good looking and a lot of women like them so they allow themselves the pleasure. I think it’s best to be upfront with people , so I think it’s cruel for them to not tell women that they want something casual. But as a woman it’s important to learn cues that signal that the man is not ready for a serious relationship. Most play boys do grow out of it... eventually. Just don’t waste your time trying to change them. If you want to allow yourself the pleasure do a fling and no more.,
00 Reply Maybe it's detachment or fear of commitment - That's as far as it goes when it comes to insecurity - otherwise - and someone has to tell you this - The dude that is working at wallmart looking like a walking Stephen hawking wants to fuck as much as Dan bilzerian - he just can't do it - sex ain't as easy to get for dudes
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+1 yFor the same reason anyone pursues anything non-platonic, it simply feels good to be desired.
And it just so happens that some people simply don't see a good reason why they should limit themselves to such experience with just one person.
As long as they are clear about their intentions, and don't mislead people into thinking that it's more than something casual, then I don't see the issue.00 Reply- 1.7K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
+1 yprobably the feeling they have power, which makes them feel good. their personality may influence if that makes up for a void or it's part of their already overblown ego. I'd wonder how much bad emotions leading to inability to commit, fear of families and children are implicated.
I understand narcissistic tendencies are on the rise in society in general... the fruits of broken families and lack of parenting?00 Reply
+1 yWhy are men players? Usually the ones that are are simply looking for sex and nothing more. Once they have “conquered” one person, they are onto the next because they just like the buzz it gives them. They are not looking for anything more. I would say that the majority of the time, that type are probably not capable of anything more either and so this is their comfort level.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yYou women will make all sorts of leaps to avoid the plain and simple truth.
Those guys want sex. Not relationships. They get sex by whatever means they are comfortable with. You think that's by playing with womens emotions or whatever. They don't care about that. Had sex. Job done.
Insecurity... jesus christ...10 ReplyThis is not just men but people in general tbh.
Some people are just bored and want to fuck around, others have some trauma from the past and then they project those insecurities onto their future potential partners, and then there are people who are just evil and enjoy manipulating and using other people.10 Reply
+1 yMaybe their girlfriend or wife just never wants to have sex and he doesn't want to be the one to break up or divorce. Most women stop or significantly cut back on the sex after marriage, having a baby, or reaching a certain age. Anti-depressants are a big mood spoiler too.
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+1 yits no issue with THEM at all. woman are told to objectify themselves to fix their own insecurities. and men are driven by nature to want easy sex... sooooooo the man is just in the best case scenario
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iaMXq-hchp4&t=937s
here watch this, this will help00 Reply Some people decide to spin a story and type an essay for Ms. Whocares, for us womanizers, it's simple, were sexist. The older we get the easier it is. I love women till my death, but no woman can be trusted, your all snakes, half take what they want and blame the man anyway. While the other half acts #meToo and the only reason they need a man is getting rocks off. A lot of people don't deserve respect, women are inherently so.
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+1 yWell I Personally am trying to get a girl to settle with me.
But seems like the more you respect women the shorter the Window to try something.
The womanizers/players are on top of these games and turn them around to benefit them. And can we really blame them in a society where a lot of People think their worth depends on how many bed partners they had00 ReplyUntil someone worthwhile comes around that is worth taking serious, it’s just casual company and fun. It’s not like guys that sleep around are plotting dastardly deeds in dark rooms to hurt your feelings.
00 ReplyBecause it’s women prefer Chad’s and Tyrones. Poindexter is not their bag women don’t start pretending to like a “good guy” until their 30’s and even then they still want their backs blown out by Chad ie. Players and Womanizers.
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+1 yBecause they can be. 80% of women are throwing themselves at the top 10% Alphas. These men have zero incentive to be with just one woman as so many are willing to have sex with them with minimal effort.
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You are right. If that 80% decreased then players will become less popular or cool.
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@UncleJessieRabbit Spot on correct.
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+1 ySome guys don't realize a good thing until it is too late. By that time they have already messed things up with a great woman who truly loved and cared for them.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yThis one's pretty easy to understand. Sex with desirable women is one of the biggest highs a guy will ever experience. And sex with a VARIETY of desirable women is even better. So the intrinsic rewards of being a successful player are HUGE. And in today's society there isn't much downside. So that's why so many men want to be players. Of course, not many are actually successful at it.
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+1 yThere's nothing wrong with them they just don't want to compromise and want to have fun with as many women as they can before they commit with The One.
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+1 yMen love sex. Some men have ways that women love.
And since men love sex, they have as much as they can. Here's hoping they stop the habit once they get tied up, so to speak.00 Reply4.6K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. It is a very good question. I don't know but I think they get some sort of pleasure and ego boost when they show to the world that they can have any woman if they wanted.
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+1 yFor me its simply a matter of turn one, the Tate. Feel. Sound and amount of orgasms. Every girl cums differently and they are all a turn on. I love discovering new driven nous zones and unique places on their bodies that they want stimulated
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+1 yIts the 'Peter Pan' never-wanna-grow-up immaturity phenomena...
"I was only playin" (with YOUR heart & feelings) that gets you SLAPPED or sometimes SHOT!00 Reply
+1 yThat I have to ask my little brother and my uncle. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 they are players/womanizer. LOL I call it the MANHOE. 🤣🤣🤣
I think its because they are not looking for a relationship or settle or committing.00 Reply445 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. There's a certain charm to sleeping with someone when you don't know their last name. It's not like it's being done against anyone's will, wominzing men usually go for easy women it's a win win.
00 Reply1.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I think they to experience different people and different experiences without commitment. It's not something I support but I feel like that would make sense as to why
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+1 yI highly doubt it is an insecurity in men (or women for that matter) who cheat as much as it is a lesser evolved pair bonding ability and a far greater residual primal instinct to fuck like a lesser developed primate.
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+1 yguys will be players until they can't
guys will be womanizers until they can't
guys who don't fit the above because they can't are undesirable10 Reply Sex that's why, sometimes a guy just wants sex and the meaning doesn't go any deeper than that.
That or/and maybe it's about fulfilling the ego.00 ReplyTheir highest life priority is to sleep with as many girls as possible.
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+1 yNow a days I have seen it more in woman then in man. It can go both genders not just man.
10 Reply431 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. They are like that because they have zero respect for women. They just use women to satisfy their own needs then move on to the next one.
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+1 yDo you mean as opposed to just being honest about just wanting a hook up?
If you could get a casual hook -up, why would you be a player and hurt people?02 Reply- +1 y
+1 yBecause women play us. At a certain point you have wasted enough of our time that we don’t care about hurting you anymore. Frankly every instant of pain you feel from being played, you deserve to experience 10 times more.
00 ReplyInsecurities, immaturity poor upbringing, unresolved trauma.
00 ReplyIt falls under the broad umbrella of toxic masculinity. Insecurity, entitlement, a general lack of consideration of the interests of others.
00 Reply1.4K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I think more of boredom and lack of control, maturity for some. Now if its a teenager I say more of curiousity than lack of control. Older men are simply sad and desparate.
00 ReplyBecause the woman let them behave like that. I think they truly like it. Maybe they get special things for allowing the dude to be that way.
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+1 yWhat if they are good looking and women like them. Thats not really an issue is it? Some though are insecure, some its a mommy or daddy issue. I'm sure the list goes on and on.
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+1 yVarying factors... i. e. ... Biology, circumstance, learned mentality, looks/appeal, charisma or by choice. It could be many of these together or one factor specifically.
00 Reply990 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. believe it or not... A woman can have a baby every 9-12 months... and that's a LOT... a guy can father a child every week with a different woman... why did God do this? Good Question
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yIts initially to prove to himself and others that he's the best or is capable/attractive. Its a competition, really, that becomes an addiction.
Obviously then the most attractive, confident males are going to be cheaters lol00 ReplySome guys come into their own at a later age abs feel like they have to prove to themselves that they aren’t the same guy they used to be when they weren’t able to get girls. It’s an insecurity thing
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+1 yBecause they like sex and have the skill to get it.
Not all people are into relationship.
And there are female equivalents of womanizers too00 Reply 2.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Why not? The way women treat men, what did you expect?
20 ReplyThey really like sex that’s why. Like the unattainable.
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+1 yYes. To both insecurities and issues inside them, yes
10 Reply possibly, I keep getting called a player but in the inside I feel like I’m not good enough for these women
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