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This girl and I like each other but she has very stringent standards, one of which I don't meet. I enjoy drinking alcohol once every other day or every 3 days. When I drink I have one serving, I never drive afterwards, I know my limits, I've never been drunk, and I like it more for the taste than for feeling a little tipsy.

Her standard is that the guy she dates doesn't drink alcohol ever, or has before but didn't like it. She has relatives that are drunkards and it's understandable that she doesn't want the person she dates to be like them. However, she's seen me drink and knows that I am responsible with it.

She's 20 now and I've never offered her to take a drink. We've been on three official dates. It seems that out of the blue she no longer wants to date, despite things going well so far.

Am I crazy? Is she using it as an excuse to not date me? Or do you think she just can't reconcile her feelings with her standard?

(Skip this part of you're not religious)
At one point she insisted that Jesus never drank and that he doesn't like when people do drink. I've pointed out that he turned water into wine, and even had wine at his own Passover during communion. The Bible says not to overdrink, yes, though it doesn't say to abstain from it.