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we were talking on the phone today and i told him that i dreamt of him last night and in the dream, we broke up. he laughed about it and then he said "u know what? i think maybe the only reason we might break up is your mum. the thing you told me what ur mum said about me. how she said i was not rich enough and you should look for a rich guy" and then i told him not to worry about it.. by the way, i haven't met his family and he hasn't met mine yet (only my little brother). we have been together for nearly one year.
he told me "u know.. my family is fucked up. like im not close with any of them. they are all out of my life. but i know i have to talk and see them again some day. im glad i deleted all of them off my facebook"
and i asked "why did u delete them?"
and he said "because we are together and u know, i post pictures of us on facebook. if i still have them on my facebook, they would say stuff about us. like they would say to one another "oh look he's dating this girl. she's pretty" or they would say to their own son to get a pretty girlfriend just to compare. my family likes to compare to other people and its fucked"
and then i said "so they would say shit about me?"
and he said "yeah.. thats what they do"
and then i got silently teared up coz i got upset. (he doesn't know i got upset but he noticed i became quiet)
i have a feeling that he just said "shes pretty" not to make me upset. i have a feeling he was probably going to say that his family would think im "ugly" instead. like why would they say stuff about us if they would think im pretty? and he even said yes when i asked him about if they would say shit about me...
dont you agree? or am i wrong?
im just so upset about all of this :( and im doubting everything.

so first of all, my boyfriend is mostly attracted to Asian girls (yes im asian). anyway so he told me about his friend that goes to the gym with him and his wife is there as well. They are both russian. And he told me that whenever his wife comes over to the husband (my bf's friend) and their group (including my bf), she would only talk to her husband and none of the other guys like she would not say "hi" like she's a snob or something. this was months ago by the way (i. e he told me this months ago).
then last night we were talking on the phone about something dating other races and then he said "i dont know, im mostly attracted to Asians. but i think russian girls are good looking. they have a good body but snobby personality"
and then i immediately thought of his friend's wife. then i asked him "wow.. dont tell me that you're attracted to your friend's wife?"
and then he goes "what? no.. i went thailand and saw russian girls and guys there"
You think thats an excuse? Do u think he meant that about his friend's wife? he never told me anything about russian people in thailand when he went there.. and he told me everything about it. I dont know what this woman looks like by the way (if she's pretty or not)..