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Me and my boyfriend decided to do pre Christmas presents for eachother a couple months back. I bought him some designer clothes and he said I’ll have to wait a week as he wasn’t paid yet. He then ordered me something and the wrong item was delivered. Over a month after he got it sorted and we had already discussed what present he would get me instead with the refund money.

I still hadn’t received the gift and as we’re so close to Christmas I mentioned it and told him not to worry about it as it’s Christmas time now. He responded with attitude saying he already knows not to worry about it because he’s spent money on me here and there anyway.

I told him i wish he would have told me at the time that when he paid for dinner here and there it meant he wasn’t doing the present thing anymore. So now he says I’m ungrateful.

Please tell me what you think

My boyfriend is Russian and since we got together he has really tried integrating me with his family. His parents seem like decent people, there are some mentality/cultural differences involved, they are a little arrogant. I can't help that I really feel like an outsider in their family. a lot of the time they speak russian around me even though I dont know the language. Plus, he has a little sister and the parents praise her. She's not very pretty, she has a really big nose and sometimes a bad attitude. But they always try to find a way to put her on a pedestal when im around, almost as a way to make her feel better than me, just to boost her ego or something. I don't know, I dont really care because thats their daughter obviously they love her more than me but it just seems rude when they do it. Not really sure how to deal with the situation, I've kind of been avoiding his family/going to his house just because it makes me uncomfortable.