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Met this girl online and we hit it off well talking about nerdy stuff, but then just before we were supposedly going to set up a date she grilled me by lying and asking about politics and implied she wouldn't talk to me unless I talked to her on politics (Which not talking about is one of the basic rules of dating) but she was really trying to pry indirectly and see if I was racist, sexist, etc.. not well concealed either, the questions had nothing to do with real politics. I was like okay, it is understandable because you don't want to date someone with those negative attributes, and I elaborated with statements and examples on my understanding of different circumstances and how I am not a terrible person, then she goes into indirectly asking: do you like date raping people, and again I'm like wtf, but I patiently answer trying to be understanding, no I do not date rape people, but what sort of person asks that sort of thing when you haven't even met in person? So honestly at that point I was like I understand the reasoning but I can't help but be sorta pissed at being questioned like this. Plus on top of that, she had only brought up the 'political' questions up as a condition after I had brought up hanging out. Then after following through she was like, ah but I don't like that movie I would rather wait for the incredibles~ which at the time which I knew like 3 weeks away from the original time she had agreed to hang out on, though she obviously didn't mention on purpose. But afterwards she was somehow mad that I tried to find alternate plans after because I was 'trying to press meeting', what the hell, I just got lied to multiple times while being honest and took like 20 steps back and your still upset at me for no reason without giving any reason? I can understand if your scared of a dude being a player when you meet but Jesus!