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I'm turning 26 and thinking about "settling down" but I've always seen that term used when someone fucked off in their past and now want a real relationship. At least on the internet that's how it's described.
But I'm a virgin waiting until marriage, I've never had a girlfriend and never even been on a date, and here's why.
When I was younger I never had an interest in dating, I had other hobbies. The people I went to school with only dated just to have a temporary place holder so they don't look awkward, and I didn't agree with that. I saved dating for the future and decided to spend my younger years working on myself and my career.
I'm pretty conservative, I believe in traditional gender roles, I want to be the main provider of the household and would prefer a housewife/stay at home mom, although she doesn't really have to be. It seems impossible these days since the average American family income can't even afford a basic living, but I wanted to go against all odds and became a self employed day trader and I'm working on my real estate license.
Now I'm turning 26, I make enough to support a family with my income alone, recently got a mortgage on a nice big house with a white picket fence (had to have it), got my shit together and everything. Now I think it's time that I find a young virgin conservative girl who's also waiting until marriage to settle down with so we can one day have kids and have the nuclear family we dreamed of.

I'm 26 and just moved into my own place with a mortgage (not rent) and I've been thinking about dating once I get settled in. I want to date women ages 18-23 because...
1) I'm a virgin waiting until marriage and I'd prefer to settle down with another virgin and most single women who are waiting until marriage are around this age.
2) I don't want kids until I'm over 30. I've always said that I will have kids when I'm 30+, but most women want kids before 30, so dating someone younger could play in both of our favors.
3) I heard that most women prefer older men so it could be convenient.
I'm not one of those predatory guys who prey on inexperienced teenagers I'm actually looking for a real lifetime relationship. I've already mentioned that I'm not after their sexuality. This is besides the point but I also make decent amount of money and I can support both of us and could probably make enough to support an entire family with my income alone by the time we have kids.

DISCLAIMER!! I'M TALKING ABOUT THE PART OF DATING WHEN YOU'RE LOOKING FOR A PARTNER BEFORE YOU'VE ACTUALLY FOUND SOMEONE TO SETTLE DOWN WITH

Is sometimes feels like we live in an era where you're expected to just give yourself away when dating like a donation, as if what you want doesn't really matter. Always telling other people how their dating standards are wrong. Why do we do this to each other.

The most out of the box dating standard that I have is that I only want to date virgin women (I'm a virgin too). I'm not dating at the moment but I do think about it a lot. I really tried to think otherwise and be more "accepting", but I basically forcing myself to be open to something I truly didn't want. People who were supposed to be my main influence in my youth gave me the wrong perception of sex and dating, the biggest one being my first step dad. I have mental issues and I have crazy delusions and I feel that dating someone who's not a virgin would just lead me down a mental decline and will live a life of depression and insecurity. Here's one of the delusions I would have, this is from my actual journal

So I decided to think about myself and my own happiness and accepted this standard as who I am, but I can't help but think that everyone is giving me angry eyes about it. Am I wrong for this? Let me know below.

I've also noticed that people who do shame people about their standard tend to be hypocrites. The women will say that it's wrong to reject a woman for her sex history but will turn around and say they won't date a conservative and the men will say that it's wrong for women to care about financial status but turn around and say they won't date a girl with small butt and boobs. So your standards are wrong but their's is fully justified, rules for the but not for me.

DATE WHO THE HELL YOU WANT AS LONG AS IT'S LEGAL
CAN WE AGREE WITH THAT?