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The way she is towards me hasn’t changed. I just thought about it more now that I’ve developed a crush on her.

reasons I thought she liked me
- she was always next to or near me in groups
- she’s more likely to go to something if I go
- she can spend an entire day mostly talking to me even if we’re in a large group of friends
- I felt like she liked me
- mutual friends think she likes me
- she generally talks to me in groups and tries to get my attention if I’m not paying attention especially if I’m talking to other girls.
- if we go to order drinks at the bar at a group gathering, she’ll wait for me rather than going straight back to the group.

reasons I now don’t think she likes me after I thought about it
- she hasn’t touched me or flirted with me. Most we ever do is make prolonged eye contact and even that she’ll sometimes look away or just blush.
- she has in the past distanced herself from me in groups by sitting further away from me and talking to me from a distance within the group.
- she blushes if others say something like “oh thanks for coming to the party and you even brought her along”.
- she’ll sometimes walk faster if we’re walking together.
- she doesn’t show the typical signs of romantic interest. She obviously enjoys being around me but probably in a close platonic way.

So for context, I've known her for 6 months. We're both single. I did always sort of have a tiny crush on her, but I'm asexual, so it's really hard to tell.

But she's my best friend, and we do everything together. We play video games, we go swimming, we go shopping for new clothes, we go on walks, we cook together, etc.

We're both touchy feely, and we hug a lot. She also pecks me on the cheek, as we're both Brazilians, and it's just normal.

However. We were playing video games on her couch the other day. She beat me, and I was like good game! And then we decided to take a snack break.

And then, she was like, "Hey, noticed how I basically stopped wearing pants, and now only wear shorts?"

And I was like, "I didn't pay attention until now, but yes, I did notice."

She was like, "I've been working out a lot more, and my legs have been getting really toned. And not only that, but I began moisturizing a lot. So they're baby angel soft."

And I just sort of began to blush, and don't remember if I responded.

She then asked me, "Wanna feel?"

I was like, "Um... I wanna say yes, but are you SURE you're fine with this? I mean, legs are a pretty intimate body type."

She laughed, and was like, "Get out of here, you big silly! Legs are sexual, when? Legs are for walking, they're NOT sexual. So yes, please go right on ahead!"

So I did... and I was like, "Wow, they really are that soft!", and she blushed deep red, and hugged me, saying, "Thank you so much!"

Later on, I was like, "So do you usually have your friends feel your legs, or I'm the only one?"

She was like, "I let all my closest friends feel my legs. It's a sign of affection. Makes me feel like a barrier is broken. And today, we've broken that barrier. Now bring it in will ya." She then hugged me again, tightly.

So yeah uh... I don't know what to make of this. If she's flirting, I will ask her out on a date, I do like her a lot, but... I don't know.

Also, she's 23, I'm 19, if it matters.