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From the beginning; for a year he saw this girl that he worked with in a friends with benefits arrangement. He told her several times he wasn't interested in a relationship with her yet she continued to always come over to his house uninvited, cook for him, clean etc. so he ended it but she didn't believe him and became worse. After he tried ending it she befriended all his friends and his family without asking him and got her best friend- which is one of the guys his brother is close to, to move on with them (he lives with his brother) so she could have an excuse to always be over. She literally forced herself into his life.

Now he fully cutt her off last year and started talking to me. Taking me on dates etc. I who had just met him one night at a bar had no idea who she was or anything for the first 7 months of seeing each other casually. He started by befriending me. The whole time, this girl who I had never met was calling him 24/7 telling him that I was using him and I was seeing another guy who was in a relationship and so many awful things about me to him while he was still getting to know me. On the side she was spreading rumors about me to our mutual friends saying I stole her boyfriend and stalking me actively on all my social media writing things about me.

I found out about this 6 months ago after being told by several people various rumors they heard about me slitting around and him paying all my expenses (I'm still a virgin and pay everything myself). So I confronted him because she was also at that point saying they are in love and he was cheating.. Also not true.

This week she took to social media to talk shit about me. He confronted her and she said she would stop, only to resume a minute later now slamming him too. I told him to cutt her off because I am at my limit, block her number etc if he wanted to stay with me. And he did telling her to contact someone else if it was for work.

Now she is saying on social media I used witchcraft to steal him. LOL

So in the past 6 months, I moved back in with my BF. I have 2 kids (previous relationship) and commute 2 hours round trip to work M-F. He lives in housing provided by his job and walks to work. I leave before he wakes up, and get home about two hours after he gets off. So, 7-9pm M-F (except Wednesday when I have class) is the only time I have with him awake and I have to cook dinner. We live on a reservation and I'm a teacher on another part of the rez. My district is requiring an additional endorsement, why Im gone Wed. I miss him and want to spend time with him. I rarely get to see him. Problem, the time I am home, he eats and than usually goes to his neighbors. He didn't come home last night, this is probably the 6th time he's spent the night at her house. His phone is off (he always says it dies because they watch YouTube). I went over and knocked several times tonight, no answer. Last weekend I left for 4 days and stayed with family (3 hours away) because I was so upset at all the time he spends with her.

He says I'm overreacting. That she's older and he'd never do anything with her. He also said we are not married and he doesn't have to answer to me. He works with her in the same department, every week, and texts her more than me. She is getting a divorce and he said his friend needs him. He also says I'm being clingy expecting to spend time with him (I'm rarely home). He said he loves me and the fact that I am in his house is enough to prove it. What is going on with him from a guys perspective? He says it's innocent. I admit I'm jealous. He says it's hard to be around my kids, he just needs a break.

Back story: We have been together almost 4 years and this is the 2nd time we've lived together. A year ago he cheated with a co-worker and before that, he was seeing me and another girl behind my back while we were supposed to be exclusive, but broke up (I ended up with an STI because of that situation). He swears he has been faithful, but

My boyfriend broke up with me a little over a month ago. We dated 1 year and 7 months. A lot of things happened b/w us just to break up with me and its to long to type. nun much really happened he just ignored me for a week and then broke up with me that next Saturday. I cried my eyes out of course. I didn't know what to do. Ever since after that he insisted that we remain friends or best friends as u call it and of course at the time i agreed. i was dumb for doing that. I found out he had been talking to a girl that recently just started working with him when we broke up. well after our break up he would constantly come up to me and make me mad or jealous bc he wanted to hang out with that girl & said he hugged that girl n text her n everything so I decided to look her up. She goes to my school n is in my grade and i knew her and she had a boyfriend. I was confused as to why a girl would mess around with another guy by doing all that with him like they were dating? the other day i saw 2 of his snapchats she sent him.she called him baby and sent kiss faces. Of course i panicked. He texted me and got mad n talked crapped to me. Ok i walked into that one but i was confused. I confronted the girl and asked if they had something going on and told her how i felt and what had all been happening. She said no she don't know what I'm talking about bc everytime my ex tried doing all that stuff to her like i mentioned she turned him down quick. She loved her bf n that they were getting engaged n moving in with each other and she would never cheat on him. She thought that me n my ex were together bc he talks about me a lot to his friends at work and she could see he obviously loved me. She basically told me truth and he got really mad bc i guess he was reading my messages b/w her too. He blocked me from everything for reading 2 snapchats n confronting her. He said he didn't wanna see or talk to me again. i really didn't do anything wrong. What should i do!!?