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Mmm I would say it's not cheating but it's not right either. If you want it to work with your boyfriend I would come clean and explain how this all came about. Depending on what he says you can take it from there. I would personally cut other dude off just because he's obviously interested and if you love your boyfriend, you'll just be intentionally be temping yourself with this new guy. I'm sure you and your boyfriend will fight again someday and you'll probably go to the guy and you might slip up. Not calling you a cheater, just saying. Relationships are about commitments and if you're not ready to stop seeing other people then maybe you should have not gone back.
Good luck!
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"If it's something you wouldn't do in front of your partner, then it's cheating."
Are you hiding this information from your boyfriend? If so, then it yes it is cheating. If you truly believed it was an innocent meeting between friends then you wouldn't be second guessing yourself. You know deep down that what you're doing isn't acceptable.
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Now I'm not you and I'm not sure how you feel about your boyfriend but what matter now is... do you think it'll work out?
If yes , do continue.
If no , cease right now to cut your losses.
This guy is attracted to you and is calling you beautiful and things like that. You are arranging meetings with him for lunch, coffee, whatever. "I like his company and he came Into my life at a time where I was unsure of my relationship." You are getting more interested in him. Keep meeting and things will get more heated. You figure out what you want to do.
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I would say lunch/coffee in and of itself is not cheating. Friends are capable of doing that. But if he's calling you beautiful and stuff you should just make things clear to him, and if things start to get out of hand then put an end to it.
If you are in a relationship with someone you have ZERO reason to be out alone with another man. Let alone going on dates. Yes, these little things your doing are going on dates with another man. So you are cheating. Cheating in a relationship is disgusting. Your trying to find excuses for these actions and you want people to tell you it is ok. Well it is not ok. It makes me sick to hear things like this. You should break up with your boyfriend if your going to continue to cheat.
If you have to ask if it's cheating, then it's at least close to cheating. It depends on what that coffee date meant to you two.
Besides, this other guy clearly likes you, don't give him false hope, that's just mean.Tell the other guy to cut the romantic crap and stop referring to you as beautiful. Also don't do or say anything you wouldn't be comfortable doing in front of your man
I think if you pay for yourself and just treat it like hanging out with any old friend than it's fine.
If you look at it as a date and treat it like one, it is one.I'd say since you're unsure, it's not okay.
Don't go against your gut morals.Well what do you plan on doing with this guy in your class, pursing a platonic relationship or cheating?
You're placing yourself in a position of temptation. Even if it wasn't cheating, do you really want to do that?
And is it cheating? Very grey area. I lean toward yes.If you have to ask if it's cheating, it's cheating
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