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There was a guy who I really liked and we seemed to be hitting it off pretty well. Yes, we had talked about sex but not about having it with each other except as a joke. I thought we were becoming good friends but I still really liked him. Then one day he sends me a dick-pic and I told him it made me uncomfortable. He said 'oops' and 'sorry', but no real apology. When I finally told him the pic had offended and upset me he said 'ok. Goodbye.' I was so surprised at this blatant disrespect that I unfriended him and deleted the conversation with the pic. He messaged me the other day and said that he was sorry that he offended me. I told him that he also disrespected me and that saying 'oops. Sorry.' was like saying, 'Let's move on now. It's no big deal anyway.' He said that he was really tired and tends to not use any excess energy on anything when he feels like that. I told him that taking the time to use the excess energy makes all the difference in the world when it comes to apologies. He asked me if he could make it up to me by taking me out on a date, but I told him I already had a date on the day he mentioned. I have a very difficult time trusting people after being disrespected or betrayed. It's happened so many times in my life that I don't take s**t from anyone who treats me that way. And it's really hard to trust them again as well. I'm not interested in him in that way anymore, but should I still give him a chance at just being friends? Or should I just forget about him all together?