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It's obvious people in todays society have trouble with being happy
I have trouble with it too but the thing. I started questioning about happiness recently
''What is it good for when i can just be content and accepting what happens without having to pursue something that feels so out of reach''
There is just so many more things you could be doing rather than going after something that seems practically impossible, I don't think i'd ever be able to name 5 people that are truly happy.
simply being fine with it seems so much better mentally
Especially when it comes to being happy with your own appearance i see so many people here on gag seem to be unhappy with it be it real or false its there. I've actually never even not been okay with my appearance (okay maybe my height but hey everyone has an insecurity or two) I've never cared if anyone thought i was ugly much tho as far as i can remember, Their opinions about me felt meaningless and without actual effort put into them, they didn't know me why would i have cared?

Anyway I'm just wondering what are your thoughts on happiness in general? Can it even be achieved?
If it can how much struggle would it cause to achieve it anyway?

Feel free to share your reasons or just vote.
I was just wondering how many pepole are on this sight because of a disability?

Personally I have diagnosed asperges and have spent a lot of time out of work and am currently though i'm mobile and not shut of from the world i'm involved with weekly community groups tech meetups , took part in a go kart racing event as the driver for a community group i'm involved with and build it with (and I might actually be on there board now?) where I took an interview from the local news station in my somewhat awkward yet well spoken fashion after a crash.
Also contacted local businesses mostly via email and message to pursue potential business ideas i've had even if they haven't so far been successful.
But I do still spend a lot of time on my own and working on my own projects (websites , games , 3d computer models , in the near future posible apps and building my own APIs) or potential business ideas and i read articles a lot then I usually get drawn to online forums such as this one I think in part through a desire to better understand and read pepole as well as wanting to remain social at that point in time and talk about everything and nothing when I feel like it.