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This question is only for guys. My husband is very attracted to me and we have an amazing sex life. He is extremely handsome. I want to be as attractive as possible for him. Even though he fell in love with me when I was 70 pounds over weight and has never ever been critical or had trouble performing, I still want to be thin like I used to be so I can wear sexy lingerie. He has never seen me thin, although I was thin and fit for most of my life. I want him to know the real me. I am planning to have my extra skin removed and have a full body lift. He said he loves me with sagging skin and not to worry about it, but when i told him I needed to have the body lift to feel good about myself he became very supportive. I am in my mid forties. My face skin looks young. My husband says not to bother with getting my breasts lifted because he is worried I will lose sensation. He says he likes them the way they are... But I am so white I am transparent and I can see my blue veins through my breast skin and my breasts sag from nursing my babies. I am wondering if men can really be attracted to breasts that are droopy and have visible blue veins? Is he just being kind and loving? Or are men in their late fifties and older attracted to realistic non perky breasts? How can a woman dress to look as attractive as possible with somewhat saggy D cup breasts?

I am in a relationship of 5 years (married now) and we hang out a lot with another couple (just dating). Lately, the other couple is going through a very rough time and not doing well. She is unhappy with him and is only staying with him for now because they have a child and she wants it to work out.

More and more, I am getting the feeling she is attracted to my husband. She knows he struggled with being faithful many years ago and I am afraid she might try to play to his weakness.

Things she does...
- Ignores her boyfriend and smiles when talking to my husband
- She drinks quite a bit around us, but not other couples
- She asks about our sex life more often lately

The final one... At dinner last night, she sat directly across from my husband (and even had her boyfriend get up and move when he took the 'wrong' seat). During dinner, we were talking about sex a little. When her boyfriend left to use the bathroom, she told us how she only climaxes with vaginal stimulation instead of clitoral and then looked straight at my husband and said, "sorry, too much information?"

She completely changed the topic when her boyfriend returned.

QUESTION: Am I paranoid, or is she attracted to my husband? Should I be worried?