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Things came to a head with someone I was briefly seeing. I hurt her, and she wanted to end but said if i got my shit together she would reconsider. So i go to agree to a month-long break, with 2 weeks no contact, and then she'll let me know what she thinks. Is there a chance she wants this time to just get over me and move on?

We still like each other, but we both agree that it wasn't good for us rn, and that there were too many problems in our lives which were making us miserable at the moment. Most of them were on my end. I need to work on myself — and i had promised her that I would, and was really trying to — but it was too hard with everything going on to actually do that, because there was just so much stuff happening. The stuff that was going on was stuff that I wanted to fix so that I could make us happy, and be a better partner in the future, but it was simultaneously getting in the way of me focusing my efforts in that direction — I told her that and she agreed/accepted it. Like I want and wanted to be better. And was trying to.

Still, she said she would consider it again in the future, in a month or even later at some point. I really like this person too, and I think we could be really happy together if we sorted through some of our problems first (especially me). I also know, from myself, her, and mutual friends, that she is a very straightforward person who usually, but not always, says what she means. My worry is that she isn't serious about this and that it's a soft rejection.

Like i get that she's ending things, but is she serious about being willing to consider after a month or in the future?

Things came to a head with someone I started seeing. She said that she wanted no contact for two weeks. And then, she said that she would let me know how should felt about us dating again after two more weeks, and if she needed more time to decide that. We're giving it a month. That was an agreement.

We still like each other, but we both agree that it wasn't good for us rn, and that there were too many problems in our lives which were making us miserable at the moment. Most of them were on my end. I need to work on myself — and i had promised her that I would, and was really trying to — but it was too hard with everything going on to actually do that, because there was just so much stuff happening. The stuff that was going on was stuff that I wanted to fix so that I could make us happy, and be a better partner in the future, but it was simultaneously getting in the way of me focusing my efforts in that direction — I told her that and she agreed/accepted it. Like I want and wanted to be better. And was trying to.

Still, she said she would consider it again in the future, in a month or even later at some point. I really like this person too, and I think we could be really happy together if we sorted through some of our problems first (especially me). My worry is that she isn't serious about this and that it's a soft rejection.

I met these 2 girls. Girl1 laughed loudly at my joke and started talking to me asking me to repeat it to her then later tease me after we talk by scaring me. She started butting in to my conversations finding any way to talk to me but can't directly start a conversation with me. After we have a conversation she does the scaring thing. Her friend girl2 asks me to talk to 1 and joke around with her.2 tries to get me around them.2 asks me to be around them and 1 has an attitude. Both wanted a selfie with me so they took turns being next to me in pictures but when it was 1s turn she asked me to get closer. After that 1 wanted me in all of our selfies together and close to her. 1 giggles and says my name when I look at her. She giggles and says my name a lot. Well 1 finds any way to compliment me and liked a picture with my dad tagged in it showing on his notifications then tell me in person she likes it. The one time 1 wore something that showed cleavage 2 came and asked me for a selfie with them next to 1, she blushed and leaned over to me. She finds out information about me to tell me what she heard.1 said something questionable to me "nobody else is as big as you" when I was talking to another guy and she randomly asked me how much I'm taller than my dad. 2 said "He's 6' tall with long legs legs". She offered me a ride when it was unnecessary and when I accepted it she hesitated. She then said me and her would be dancing partners. She copied how I walked then told me told me. 2 Defended me. When some guys were saying stupid stuff she went up to someone and said “they’re picking on me and CJ”. 2 finds any excuse for me to be around she’s like “You can sit, With us, walk with us”. They both will smile at me say hi and laugh at stuff I say. Girl 1 blushes a lot around me she’ll blush when I say hi first. While talking gets red, smiles and hides her face making no eye contact. Are they trying to make all 3 of us friends, why do they both approach me together