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Making a long story short, this isn't a question about "how to get an ex back," but I'm kinda confused about what my ex said regarding our break up. So I'll post the texts then follow up.
"I love you. There's no other guy that I'm interested in or talking to if you think that's the case cause it's not. But I feel like you really need to get a grasp on your life right now. You have a personality disorder, you're juggling school and work and sometimes you can be a lot on me and yourself. This isn't anything new. I've felt like this before we became official. But because I cared about you I was willing to help and suggest you get counseling. I'm the only one who tried to suggest you to talk to a professional and genuinely see about your well being. Remember that. But now it's not fair to me. I think we need a break. Not a week long break but us going our separate ways. We've been having discussions like these a lot and it hasn't solved anything. I still want to stay in contact with you though. I'm not saying we're done forever but in order for us to have a future you need to work on your present life. I'm not cutting you out of my life but I'm giving you the space to give your all to (my name) so you can be the man you wanna be." At the end of this long text I might come off as probably a terrible boyfriend (at the time). She made me feel guilty about my actions although it takes two people in the relationship, I didn't make an issue and bring up things she's done, just agreed with her leading to a very subtle breakup.
"Feels good to know we're on the same page instead of this becoming an argument and us hating each other like I've experienced before. If we didn't break up now, you'd probably end up losing me for good later. If I didn't want to be with you in the future I wouldn't be speaking to you right now. You'd be cut off in all forms." which followed up the end of our convo with exchanges of "I love you," and that's it. .

see is just how unhealthy this hobby of yours is. You spend most of the day making post that belittle, Stereotype, catagorize or put men in a box. you then (along with your movement) claim this is wrong when is happens to women. the very things a lot of girls would do to men without hesitation. The difference between the sexes is accountability, integrity, and responsibility. these determine charater traits and menset. however a lot of girls won't amit or see that a lot of problems they have with the opposite sex is because of the choices they make with them and how/why they allow them into their lives. a lot of girls just are not accountable or responsible when dealing or choosing men that they spend time with. then they blame the men. For a choice that they made with men. That makes no since. Especially when you see how picky they are in comparison to men. It just seems like this movement uses guilt of the bad things that men have done to women to use fear and have control over them. Women dont seem to feel as guilty when they treat men wrong. And just to prove ourselves we end up spending time and money we never get back setting us behind (another thing girls act like is acceptable). And is seems like the more men give the more girls expect, whether is be the mans body or money they want more for simply being a women. The biggest things you dont realize is 1. I used to be a feminist, then when I found out this truth and was treated like crap. I realized that this was just a movement for control and power. You see they only wanted guys they could use for something and I learned to pick up on that pattern. 2. Im not the only guy who realizes this, a lot of men will lie and defend this cause because of guilt or they want happiness in their home, but we can't live in the past. If men are willing to change to make socitey equal then girls have to do the same. using guilt just seems to be a way for feminist to make men question their morailty but ignore womens.