Search Results: confidence issues

How to cope with depression in early 20s and accept oneself?

I've tried to post this so many times. I've written it over and over, deleting all of my words every single time. I cannot express the amount of pain I am in, or the hopelessness I feel. I struggle with depression and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Should I give up on meeting women until I get out of my parent house?

I’m 29 at the moment and consider myself a decent looking guy. I should have no issue having a girlfriend but I’m both picky and have a horrible self esteem. From past experiences I’ve come to learn some girls just look...

dan803

Xper 2 Age: 38

Will I ever have confidence with women again?

I’m 29 and consider myself a decent looking guy. I should have no issue having a girlfriend but I’m both picky and have a horrible self esteem. From past experiences I’ve come to learn some girls just look for the guy who...

dan803

Xper 2 Age: 38

Is it possible to have confidence with women after someone has shattered it?

I’m 29 and i would consider myself to be a decent looking guy. I should have no issue having a girlfriend but I’m both picky and have a horrible self esteem. From past experiences I’ve come to learn some girls just look...

wes803

Xper 2 Age: 37

Guy's Behavior

Is it a lack of confidence or what could it be?

Hello, I am having a psychological issue and unfortunately I am unable to well categorize it. I often get anxious/nervous in any of the following situations: - Arrive late to class, and have to walk in front of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Will I ever feel like I have enough to make a woman love me again?

Right now I’m 29 and consider myself to be a decent looking guy. I should have no issue having a girlfriend but I’m both picky and have a horrible self esteem. From past experiences I’ve come to learn some girls just look...

wes803

Xper 2 Age: 37

Never feel like I’m good enough for women?

I’m 29 and consider myself to be a decent looking guy. I should have no issue having a girlfriend but I’m both picky and have a horrible self esteem. From past experiences I’ve come to learn some girls just look for the...

wes803

Xper 2 Age: 37

Trying to put myself back out there?

So im currently overseas in Japan and also recently single after i found out my now ex had been cheating on me all 3 years of our relationships. Now i am just having some issues just getting myself out there again, dont...

Vayoric

Xper 4 Age: 34

I want to do something about this girl I like? But I'm not sure if she is shy or just being friendly?

So I have come across a girl at work that I have a major crush on (heart goes racing when I see her type of crush) and she seems really nice and sweet but we have only had a conversation twice which was in passing and she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Please help me?

I'm ugly. I'm insecure. I'm not likable. And no I can't just magically start liking myself so others can like me , I've tried and they still tried to put me down and make me feel bad. No matter what I do it doesn't feel...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Approaching new people?

I have this issue where I never know what to say to make new friends or flirt with girls both online and day to day. I struggle to find either the confidence needed to go up to people or even figure out what to say once I...

Semora

Xper 4 Age: 27

Girl's Behavior

Why do girls approach me in clubs even though I'm not attractive?

I have serious issues with confidence and insecurity so take this with a pinch of salt, but I'm not at all attractive. I'm visibly overweight (~15st at average height, not muscly at all), and face-wise I'm almost...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ladies and Gents, what's wrong with me?

⚠️ Warning ⚠️ Do not continue reading if you are going to answer shortly or If you won't read the whole description. Some details about me and my life: *I am highly sensitive, love playing around, can be the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How are terrible guys getting the girls while the normal men can't get any?

I have never had a girlfriend and I'm 23 years old and a virgin. I see a lot of times terrible guys getting girlfriends (guys, who smoke, drink lots of alcohol, have no perspective in life, don't know what they want in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is this normal?

I literally cannot speak infront of a large group of people. When forced to my heart speeds up really fast, my palms get really sweaty, i tear up, i struggle to concentrate, i speak quietly and stutter over my words. I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Does anyone have advice for someone who has trust issues?

I've always lived in a heart-shaped box with regards to intimate relationships. I'm afraid to get close to someone, this goes for friends but it's especially bad with intimate relationships. Every time a girl is either...

Tothepowerof27

Xper 2 Age: 29

Stop F***ing Up Your Good Relationship!

It seems like relationships these days barely last. Here's my input on the major problems and simple solutions to those same issues that plague good relationships. Bad communication Nobody has ESP. If you are not able to...

SweedyPie

Yoda Age: 33

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Is it weird to observe a girl from afar?

Dear all, I would like to inform you that I have some confidence and self-esteem issues which doesn't make my life easy in many fields (Mainly when it comes to interactions with women). Today, I saw a girl on...

Anonymous

(30-35)