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Alright, so I go to church with this one girl whom I always noticed that she is quite outgoing, and friendly to anyone she meets. Nobody can say a bad thing about her. She reminds me of my sister and her personality (I have a crush on the girl, not my sister.) I get along almost perfectly with my sister, and so I figure I would want to spend my time with someone who is as fantastic as she is. I chatted with her over facebook messenger for quite a bit for about a month. We go to the same high school as well but I am a senior, and she is a sophomore (I'm 17 and she is 16 both in band class, but she is in the entry band, while I am at the audition group). I never see her during the day. She invited me to join track & field and I did join a bit late. I got to talk with her quite minimally in real life during the track season.

I have a hard time talking with her in real life because it always seems like she is talking with someone else, and I don't want to pry into the conversation. I don't know if this is just coincidence, but she seems to talk with everyone else except for me (almost like intentional avoidance?).

As of late, I have talked with her (very minimal as if it were "micro"-talk) in real life, but here's the thing. I cannot make her laugh for the life of me. One of the biggest things I've got going for me, is that I have no problem being goofy and embarrassing myself for a good laugh. I can make people laugh a lot, but when ever I am around her, there isn't anything that I can do to make her laugh as it seems.

My plan to date her is to wait until she gets out of high school (I am a couple weeks away from graduating) and then see about dating her.

I haven't felt this way for a girl ever, and I do think she is very special (Also I haven't dated before so I wouldn't know how all of this works out anyways). I just would like advice on how to approach this. How can I try to improve my friendship with her?

Thanks for reading this short novel.

I'm a 21 year old guy who hasn't been in a relationship yet. I have never even kissed a girl, mostly because I want to kiss a girl I care deeply about and not just the first stranger who would oblige to it. recent events have motivated me towards looking for a girlfriend. I have started using several dating apps with decent succes as far as matches goes. And I might be going on a date soon. But I wonder, is it a turn off when a guy is still a virgin and hasn't even kissed a girl before?

I was on training for 3 months in a company where we met.
She was a sex addict before meeting me , she was involved with all types of men younger, older, middle aged and had sex with all of them,
i also felt she had bipolar disorder and obsessive thoughts about sex, my friends told me about her past so i was just stringing her along because i knew she liked me and i would never make such a woman my girlfriend or wife, i dint want to have sex with her because i feared catching any sex disease from her. Her self-esteem was also very low.
She used to have orgasms in office just by looking at me. (she used to open her mouth and used to freeze for 5-10 seconds while looking at me so i knew she is having orgasms looking at me)
She told all of her friends and sisters about me and maybe even planned a future with me.
Obviously i never dated her infact i started dating another girl, she found out and went on a sex rampage to get over me or something, she used to come to offices with bruises and love marks all over her body.
Even then , she used to look at me as if she can't get over me.
Now, i heard from a friend that she has comitted suicide and hung herself because she was in severe depression.
I am feeling guilty about all of this, I just played with her and told her i like her because I felt such women who have tons of partners are actually fun to play with and they have no emotions at all.
She was good looking and all but i just didn't want a woman who was a village bicycle that everyone rode on.
Was I at fault?