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Guy friend behavior. Does he still like me?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Background info: So, my twin brother, Reese, has been friends with my crush, Alex, since we were all little. We're all the same age. Alex lives the next town over so we don't go to

Background info: So, my twin brother, Reese, has been friends with my crush, Alex, since we were all little. We're all the same age. Alex lives the next town over so we don't go to school together. Now we're all 16. I also have a little brother (8) and a little sister (11)

I've had a crush on Alex since we were little, he was always at our house, or he would go places with us, this may seem weird but I didn't know how to get his attention so I was always mean to him. As the years passed I matured a little. When we were around 13, I think he started falling for me. We would playfully tease each-other and when he came over, he hanged out with me more than Reese. He would follow me around and talk to me. At first I thought he was just teasing me and wanted to be friends. I know this sounds cheesy, but I mainly thought he liked me because of how he stared at me, the look in his eyes made me fall in love with him. Somehow Reese found out that I liked him and he teased us (which means that Alex knows I like him) and my little sister and brother do it too now. One day Reese pushed Alex into my room and was forcing me to hug him and I completely ignored them. Now It seems like Alex doesn't like me anymore :( Do you think him finding out scared him a little, or maybe because I ignored him before? It's really awkard now. Also, I'm really good at hiding my feelings about someone. I could really tell he liked me before. I at least want to be friends with him but I'm afraid that if we talk, they're all going to tease us. We recently went to six flags together, and Alex didn't even talk to me. I was heartbroken. Do you think he's just hiding his feelings now because of my siblings? We don't even follow eachother on SC or instagram, so it's not like we can chat online. I can't stop thinking about him I really like him. Recently Reese said "Alex is single Riley!" and Alex quickly responded with "I have a girlfriend" I don't know I just don't understand guys.

Sorry this is a lot, I just can't stop thinking about him

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loverboy50

Xper 5 Age: 34

Me and my best friend fell for each other & were about to make the leap into making things offical ( a relationship) and she didn't tell me this but i knew it. We both loved each other

Me and my best friend fell for each other & were about to make the leap into making things offical ( a relationship) and she didn't tell me this but i knew it. We both loved each other then and still do... we had a misunderstanding situation where we ended up not talking for a while and she was mad at me but a few months ago we reconnected and our friendship is just a strong and we're still bestfriends. We talk from morning until she falls asleep every night. But during our time apart a guy was sent to her through a family member of hers who thought they would make a good couple and they started talking and are now dating. His job is on a boat that takes him away for months... about 8 months so they hardly didn't do much together. Recently out of no where we were jsut asking each other questions as a form of game and a way to know each other even more than we already do. And out of no where through those questions i found out that she still loves me and has feelings for me and that whole time was missing me just as much. She also told me that she still thinks about me sexually and thinks about the pics i sent her that we traded when were falling for each other. But she also said that she thinks about both of us that way. She hold back her feelings for me and if something came up where she didn't want to answer but the answer would most likely favor me or admitting something to me that would lean towards me she would just use a specific emoji as to say that she can't answer that. I really love her but at the same time it hurts to know that i can't have her. It really sucked to have lost my bestfriend and the person i love and care for so much at the same time those few months back. I dont know how much more i can take... i just want to express to her all the time how much i love her and how much i want to be there with her. But she stops me because she doesn't want to think about it. I guess she made her decision by doing this and choosing to stay with him. I want my best friend in my life but i dont know if i can sit back and watch her relationship grow with this guy. What should i do?

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Anonymous

(25-29)

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