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Me and my other half have been dating since veterans day. He is in the army so i only see him on leaves. This year I want him to meet my family, they all know he is white and are okay with it. However Francis told me last night that his father doesn't want him dating a black girl.I never want to meet his family now because they all feel the same way...My question is should I suck it up and meet them or just wait until the get curious and want to meet me? And should I be upset that his family doesn't already know I am black? HELPP

I have a friend, who I came to know because he served in the Army with my cousin. And he (Tom) and I, started out just texting and facebooking because his hometown was near me. We talked through Facebook while they were deployed, and then we met up on his POst Deployment leave like 2 years ago. Instant connection, and we fell for each other fast. We talked about dating, but never became like Offical. Then I went to Western to visit my friend, and I ended up hooking up with someone while I was down there. I told Tom, and he got mad (which I understand), and we didn't talk for like 3 weeks. We started talking again, and talked about dating. Then he was home for Easter and we had plans to hang out, I drove out there, and he ended up bailing on me for a girl who he made his girlfriend and had met 3 days prior. I didn't know he was dating anyone. We stopped talking altogether, and while he was dating her we both started arguing and just made each others' lives miserable. He EAS'd about 5 months later, and we've hung out, gone on a date, and both have said the connection we had so long ago is still there. But he doesn't want his friends or my cousin to know that we're friends again, which kind of bothers me. He said he feels weird since I'm his friend's cousin, and due to the shit that's gone on in our past. I recently found that he's tagged in pictures with a girl that he used to talk to on Facebook, but set it so I can't see them on his profile page. He said that he wants to wait until this Fall to make him and me dating official, as I'm leaving soon for the Military and he'll be living on campus for college for the first time. I've talked to him about how I feel and he says that he's being totally honest with me. I was supposed to leave Monday for the Military and he was going to come to the hotel and say bye to me Sunday night, but ended up not being able to due to him getting off work late. I'm scared that he's playing me, what do you all think?