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Well a lot happened to me today. But there is this girl who I work with, and I didn't realize she liked me as much as she does. I mean I like her just fine, but we really don't hang out a lot. But today we had lunch together during our lunch break. (We've done it before, just not in awhile)

And she told me she goes clubbing a lot. She's 19. I'm 18. She admitted to me that she drinks a lot when she goes to clubs, however I never drink. We're both under age for it. Not that I care what she does, but I grew up with an alcoholic father, watched what it can do to people, and so it's sort of just made me never want to take a sip EVER. But when she was talking about it, it sounded like so much fun. However I NEVER dance, and I'm super awkward around people. Heck! Even today my boss offered me a small stepping stone promotion, he said because I'm great at my job, but he wants to see me be a little more out going and he thinks this particular job will help bring me out a little. (I think he's becoming my friend.)

But I'm just not sure that clubbing would be the right scene for me. Sounds like trouble, but also fun. And like I said, I really wasn't even sure me and this girl were friends until she asked me to go with her. She even said if I ever wanna go to just message her and she'll pick me up and take me with her. Should I try it? She's going tomorrow, and goes every few weeks.

A guy and I are part of an organization at our university, and we've been talking a bit because of it (i. e. him asking me to come hang out with groups of other club members/officers a bit throughout the week). I haven't though too much of it since it's pretty friendly.

I recently added him on Snapchat, and yesterday after viewing my story, he messaged me about it several hours later (usually people message you on Snapchat right after viewing your story?). I gave a nice but short reply, but he didn't stop the conversation. He asked me a question related to my reply, and we ended up chatting for an hour or two, both giving long responses and asking the other more questions. He eventually asked me if I'd like to study with him the next day for a class we're both in, and I agreed.

Today we met up and studied for 3-4 hours. A lot of it ended up having us talk about our lives completely aside from what we were studying. I also realized he has several other friends in the class, but he didn't invite any of them. Afterwards as we were walking across campus to leave, we realized we were both invited to a party in a few days. He said I should go with him and another girl from our club to hang out with them before and at the party. He had also been saying while we were studying that he didn't really feel like he needed to study any more for our class, but as we said goodbye and he gave me a hug, he said he'd text me about studying more tomorrow if I wanted.

My question is basically how can you tell if a guy is just being friendly/a good classmate or if he's potentially interested in you? Do any of the above actions signify one way or another? I don't really want to ask at this point and spoil a potentially really nice friendship if he isn't interested.