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Girls, have you experienced this?
Guys, what am i doing wrong?

It seems like the guys who are the most straightforward are players or assholes!

I rarely reject anyone, cos i like to give people a chance. But at the same time, i never ask anyone out, but i do flirt with them
And all i get is guys staring at me, but i assume they aren't interested cos they're friendlier towards other girls.

One guy, was act hot and cold the entire year. He was being really friendly, the next day, being a cold unfriendly asshole and ignoring me when i say hi. Then getting angry when i talk to other guys. He also tells his friends not to talk to me, probably cos it makes him jealous. Then i find out that he has a girlfriend that he's in love with!!

Yet he tells his uncle "i really like Keziah, but i dunno, cos i tried saying hi to her but she didn't seem interested, i dunno what to do!"
But i dont see ANY effort coming from him, except from staring at me. He also tells other people (who im friends/aquaintances with) that he thinks im beautiful etc.
But it's really shitty, cos he has a girlfriend, i feel like he wants to mess with people's feelings!

Another guy, I went on a date with yesterday, he got only £10 out the cash point, took me to McDonald's and then got mad when i wanted a latte for £1.60, rather than a 50p orange juice. Then we went to the pub, and made me pay for the drinks "cos he has no money left and it was ONLY fair". Then he took me down a dodgy road and insisted that we sit on a bench, then he said "what do you think of couples who kiss and make out on public benches?" and i said that "its not my type of thing". Then i sat on another bench away from him and he called me a bitch, then i said "ok bye". I wasn't that interested in the guy, but i thought i might as well give him a chance. Also, i spent more money on him, than he did on me! I think he only wanted to use me!

Potential signs:
-He text me to meet up for coffee 2-3x a week. He always ask first.
-He’s expressed that he wants me to go to him when I’m sad, upset, etc because he feels like my "friends and man" are doing a good job.
-He knows I don’t eat much, and will text me to eat (not all the time. Just when I cancel on him)
-Has told me “I’ve always cared about you” when I was upset with him once.
- He’s tells me everything and trust me to the fullest. Heck he even gives me his phone and I read all his text. (I never ask for it, he just shows me)
-He gets my opinion before he makes any major decisions

MIXED Behavior:
-He used to be very flirty/touchy-but stopped cold turkey oneday
-Used to say he could treat me "better than your man" but I never knew if it was a joke?
-Will bring up hot chicks-but never seeks them out or tries to date.
-Brough up one girl, and said he'd probably go for her if she was single-----but then said "i'm not pursuing her nor am I hung up on her"

He has 0 experience with women. Never had a girlfriend. Been on 2 dates.