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So I've been talking to this guy for a few months now and he told me something personal that is usually a common question when people ask about someone your usually seeing/talking too. I ended up telling someone about that personal thing because they asked about that common question and if i did say something generic about the question i knew they would keep asking so i told them and then i told him i told that person.

He said he felt betrayal in a way. he's a very private person and its his first experience when it comes to a relationship. Which i understand but it felt like he wasn't getting my side of things which was a little frustrating.

Also I've been talking about the future a lot and about meeting each other family etc. When im happy and excited about things i usually think about those things. He said i need to tone it down a bit because it made him uncomfortable and nervous. He wants to take things slow and make it right and said he could see a future with me. Things he was saying kind of made me feel like shit and it didn't seem like he was understanding how it was normal and i apologized.

He said he doesn't want to give up on this and we were both stress. It sometimes feels like if he talks about the future etc then its okayy but if i do sometimes its like too soon to talk about it.

Okay, so I work in pharmacy. I am what's called a technician. In the totem pole of pharmacy there's pharmacists, then technicians, then assistants & lastly clerks. Assistants are the least trained & adept. The role of technician was created to oversee assistants & assist pharmacists/patients better.

Anyway I left a pharmacy recently where the HR (who knows little to nothing about the field) put me as "clerk" because I move around a bit to gain experience/skills. A contract where I could not order, etc. So essentially I as one step below a pharmacist was given the most unimportant hands-tied role in a pharmacy. And I got pissed off very quickly.

Enough that when I left I referred to my position as near pointless. Which to me it was. It was my most useless role in a pharmacy.

But looking back it's like... they've done this for years. The pharmacy in principle should be crawling with patients as it's a specialty but it's fking slower than molasses with barely any businesses. So ultimately they treat good / skilled staff who have sought to gain knowledge poorly and cater to shit staff that haven't moved from probably their first employment (the level of employees at this pharmacy was far below normal) as if knowledgable.