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I and my friends (sisters: say Elsa and Ana) go to the local park every morning. One day day I notice one guy staring at me and I tell this to Elsa. Ana was not there that day. We felt very uncomfortable so we told him to stop and he still continued being creepy. Today I went to the park with Ana. The same guy was being creepy again. He even followed around. When Ana started to tell him that she'll call the police and he said something very indecent. I was so shocked by this cause this had never happened to me before. I could barely speak. Before taking action I want to who is he targeting?

Elsa and ana often have these problems. This is a first being part. Guys don't hit on me cause I'm reserved and oblivious. Just to throw it out there.

So this was over a month ago and things seem to have leveled out. But I’m left wondering about my behavior as being overly helpful and possibly making someone uncomfortable.

The door swings both ways with Me Too moments.

A guy I’m fairly chummy with in a twice a week smalller workout class happened upon me after class as I was leaving the shower room asking if I had seen his car keys.

I was caught off guard messing with my phone. I said I’d let the others know. This is a corporate provided workout and most of the people in it are in my company. I sent a group email about the keys not mentioning who lost them.

I circle back to the gym and ask him to enter his cell into mine and let him know I emailed the group about the keys.

CREEPY ON MY PART!! I hit send on my phone out of habit so it looked like I was hitting on him. He made this kind of shocked move then smiled and ran his hand through his hair whilst finding next words. I realized I was sending the wrong message.

I deleted his number at the end of the day. Seeing as no one in my group would be of help after that.

He was kind of standoffish for a while. I don’t think he was happy I emailed the others about the keys.

I then reflected on all the bits of social media you get access to on a person if you have their number and felt like a real creep.

He avoided me and is now back to friendly as usual.

A friend in our class told me I was being oblivious, he didn’t lose his keys and was just trying to start an exchange but I embarrassed him by letting others know about the keys. Obvy made up.

My stance is I crossed a line if he is in a relationship, we don’t talk above it these things but he has a little one.

I dont wear my engagement ring to class because it hurts and will get damaged.

I just want things to be cool. Something out of nothing?

i just don’t want to make similar mistakes with other people in the future.