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Ok so i have a "friend" who i am messing around with. I am getting mixed signals from him. Im not sure if he wants 2 be friends with benefits or more. I go 2 his house almost every weekend. & we hang out like go 2 a bar or some where else, then end up at his house & end up hooking up. Everytime. We dont talk during the week unless its like through snapchat. But as soon as its the weekend its like "hey wrud tonight" always. Which i understand he works during the week and 12 hour days. I know he is tired, but i will text him during the week & i literally Get a text back an hour later, or even sometimes not even a reply. I finally asked him what we were doing,& he said he doesn't want to be fuck buddies& that he doesn't want 2 put a label on us & that we are just friends, like weve always been. Which honestly i dont mind, because I feel like i just want sex from him anyways. Well the reason i am so confused is because the other day i went 2 his house & he had friends over. We were all in his roomates room watching a movie. He decided he was tired & that he was going 2 bed like 10 minutes into the movie. I didn't thnk anything of it, i figured he was just tired. Well i stayed in the room, & was going 2 finish the movie. Eventually people started 2 leave, & it was just me & his roomate. I got up 2 use the restroom, & there he was. He asked me if i was going 2 just sleep in his roomates room with him & i said no that i was just going to finish the movie. He said well come lay with me, & i told him that he could wait till the movie was over & i turned around to walk away & he grabs my hand & told me to please with him that he sleeps better when im next to him. I ended up laying in bed with him, surprisingly we didn't do anything but cuddle? He kissed me on the 4head before we fell asleep, he even gave me a massage. I've honestly never had a fuck buddy or anything like that. I've only slept with 4 guys & they were all long relationships, so that could be why im so confused.

I've been friends with this particular guy for years. Not necessarily close, but we used to have the same group of friends. One day, after months of not speaking he expresses interest in hanging out saying he would love to see me. I invited him to our mutual friends house to play cards and he came, but went home later that night.

I asked him to let me know when he made it home and he did. He also made the comment that his king size bed was comfy and I should try it out sometime. A few days later. He invites me to hang out at his apartment where he and his friend live together. I came over, we hung out, and I went home. The third time he invited me over, his friend was there again. He mentioned taking me to shoot guns, because we both like doing that as a hobby. He mentioned that he thought his dad and I would get along great. When I called him out about about being terrible at responding to texts, he said that's why he liked me, because I call him out on his sh*t.

Later his roommate went to bed after they had been texting each other for about 10 minutes. We started making out and eventually had sex that night. We cuddled, he was very attentive, and we probably spent more time making out before and after sex than we actually spent on the sex itself. The next morning as I left, I told him I would kiss him, but I hadn't brushed my teeth yet obviously, but he said he didn't care and did it anyway. Then he told me to text him later.

I planned on waiting until around 8, but to my surprise, he texted me around 5 asking about my day. Is there anything in what I have shared that would be signs of whether he's interested in actually dating or just hooking up. I've never really known him to be a player or anything, but I have that ' you never know' mentality and would like to hear others opinions. Thank you guys for any words of wisdom you might have to offer.

So, I was just wondering how intimate is kissing and cuddling? Or how big of a deal is it to you? I was talking to a friend who was telling me about a guy's girlfriend we both know being mad at him for playing a kissing game at a party.
Which to me, I understand. I wouldn't want my boyfriend kissing other people. What I really am curious about is... how personal is it? Do you guys think that it is something that should be taken seriously? I think it is. I enjoy kissing but I wouldn't want to do it with just anyone. It has to be someone special. My boyfriend and I, I think have the same opinion. We are very affectionate towards each other but we weren't like that until we started dating.
I have some friends that will just make out with anyone.. and I just don't get it... What is your opinion of the intimacy of kissing/ showing affection?