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So my boyfriend hasn't been the best and I know not everyone is perfect but I do talk to him about certain things that do bother me like him inviting his friends over to my parties when I didn't even invite them and he didn't call me to ask. And also there have been some incidents where he'll ask me out on a date and he tells me its just me and him and I get happy till the day comes and he tells me he's bring his friends over and I'm here like, WTF. And just yesterday I talked to him how I don't mind his friends at all but at the same time it's like you got a girlfriend and you should be spending some time with me because I don't mind he hangs with them but you know.. And so it's kind of getting to the point where I'm like do you even want me to be your girlfriend or not? And it's even at the point where his friends are even asking him that question, do you want us or her?

To sum things up; my boyfriend is getting increasingly popular on instagram (5k+ atm), he get's comments all the time on his selfies telling him how cute he is, how hot he looks, heart faces, etc. He also talks to people (girls mostly) that message him on there saying he just likes to have friends and thats all they are.

He refuses to post any pictures of us together or anything of that nature saying "It's my thing I have to myself" "I want to be able to post what I want" even going so far as when I put any lovey dovey type of comment on his pics on there he won't respond or he'll say how sweet it was in person or over text message later

In my head I feel like he thinks he won't get as much attention if he lets instagram know he has a girlfriend.

Before he had instagram we were perfect! why does he need those instagram friends now? I feel like all i need is him, I don't talk to men online.. is there something I'm missing here.

I post him on my instagram and tagg him and he leaves it there but gawd forbid I bring up the idea of him posting us on his because it will become an all out guilt trip on me of why he can't just have one thing to himself.

I'll be honest I have insecurities & I hate that he talks to women that are obv interested in him enough to message him. He tells thoughs specific people he has a girlfriend but.. to some girls, that won't stop them. I honestly don't like that he's bonding with other girls that have an interest in something that I don't have as much of an interest in.

Other than instagram our relationship is great, he never talks to thoughs girls when I'm home (we live together) we're in a relationship on FB, and he posts couples pics and sweet posts on my wall, introduced me to his friends, family, takes me out on dates, and we've been together for 4 years

I just don't understand.. if he loves me so much why doesn't he want to show me off on IG.. I know it's silly but.. this whole situat