I'll try to keep it short.
me and my ex girlfriend been together for 1,5 years. Everything was basically perfect. We had plans to get married, and move in together. We went into town to buy rings. Told a couple of people and they were really happy for us. We've always been soulmates, basically since day 1 we've met. Felt so special for the both of us.
went on a holiday, and shit turned real bad. We took distance from each other for like a week, just to miss each other so we'd let go of the irritations. While we had the time out for a week, she been watching a movie with a guy, who was staying in the same house. The day after she slept in with him (they say nothing happened.) she watched a scary movie and just couldn't sleep. Sounds like a bad excuse, but I know she isn't able to sleep all alone when she did. I found out because I went on her Facebook. Than we had fights, and she broke up with me. When we went to the airport, she told me the same guy tried to kiss her, but she pushed him away. That was before they watched a movie and slept together.
we came back home, and on the flight and all of that back, I still felt like she loved me. We kissed a couple of times
we said goodbye to each other and she picked her stuff up and applied the no contact rule. Because I had a weird feeling, I logged in on her snapchat. Her ex boyfriend was in her best friends list. And they also had a chat. Of course she loot logged of and called me right away! She said nothing was going on between them and that she is not going to see him and doesn't want him back.
After that phone call she blocked me everywhere. Whatsapp, Facebook, Instagram, snapchat, my number. She did that a week ago. Also tried to call me 2 days ago, but I didn't answer. So she unblocked my number. Now she also unblocked me on the rest of those social media platforms. She doesn't tried to contact me yet. And I'm not going to contact her, because my heart is broken and I want to fix myself. So I still apply the no contact rule. Probably would take her back if she wanted me back, because I do believe we're soulmates. And even after this, I'm still in love with her, and miss everything about her.
why would she unblock me on everything and try to call me?
But when we said goodbye, she said she was going to miss me and that she loves me. She said she hoped that we would come back as lovers in the future.
Most Helpful Girl
So you believe she cheated on you, yet you'd still take her back?
You think you're soulmates with a cheater?
Reading this shows that you two are most definitely not soulmates. Have you lived together before? Because this drama bullshit will be your life once you marry her.
You only went on a vacation together, spent what... a week in the same space - and this happens.
You are better off without her. Little over a year is not enough time to get to know a person, ESPECIALLY when you've never cohabitated. You're still in the honeymoon stage of your relationship and things have already gone to shit.
It's NOT gonna get better.
Count your losses and your blessings, because this woman will bring you nothing but misery.0
- Show AllShow Less
Most Helpful Guy
I've never been in a relationship that long or ever been "in love" so my advice isn't very valid. A girl (not an ex) blocked me just because I commented on an IG post so as retaliation I blocked her back. Very childish I know lol. I think she wants you back but is scared to do something I don't know. I'm not an expert on "love".1