Search Results: playing games or shy

douche bag has feelings?

ok,lets say I now that on his circle of friends this one guy is always cocky. when he's near me he's shy and awkward. he can't take his eyes off me,making eye contact (it's been for 5 years :/) tries to sit next to me in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Introverted/Shy Guys: How does this message sound to him?

Background: He's been getting over a bad, abusive relationship for months, is afraid of getting hurt, and was still in a bad place when he would blow me off for hanging out last month, as I've been helping him and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

There's this girl that I really like...

Ok, there is this girl that I met on a dating site and we met and hit it off. She looked familiar, but I couldn't quite put my finger on where I seen her before. After talking a bit we realized that we both went to the...

HeartStompedOn91

Xper 6 Age: 34

Does this guy at work like me? Please help!

I have developed a crush on him. He teases me an we joke around a lot. We always get along well and have a lot to talk about. He always helps me at work and asks if I need anything. Sometimes we linger at the end of the...

lalalolita

Xper 5 Age: 37

Dating

Can a shy guy hate dating?

I'm a shy guy and I'm a college student. I don't see anything wrong with being shy. I have never had a serious relationship with a woman because it is something I wouldn't enjoy. I'd have to be outgoing, meet her friends,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Once I break the ice, what's next?

I have a bad history of getting friend zoned. Not once have I actually had a girlfriend and I'm not a bad looking person nor am I awkward. Girls always like me but never in a way other than friendship. Needless to say,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys like it when girls don't show much interest?

I don't want to start a debate about playing hard to get. That is not what I'm talking about. I in no away approve or condone stupid mind games like that. Anyway, I've noticed that the guys I like don't like me. And the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He talks to me everywhere else but doesn't talk to me in class?

When he sees me in the hallway with his friend he talks to me he even told his friend my eyes left him mesmerized, he will say bye beautiful. but he only talks to me in class in group conversations he will even compliment...

bijoux_bisous

Xper 6 Age: 34

How to politely but certainly tell a guy you like him?

I am a girl, and I have liked this guy for about a month now. And since we are both shy in the dating area but quite confident otherwise, I want to tell him outright that I like him without playing games. However, there...

Only267

Xper 5 Age: 30

Dating

I messed up with a girl I think?

Hey guys I'm confused. There's this girl who's number I got a little less then 2 weeks ago. Before that though, she was showing signs of interest: body language, staring at me, touching hair, smiling, looking down when I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he shy, do you think, or playing games?

We used to flirt quite a bit but it seemed to die down over the last couple of months. I still saw him looking at me, checking me out (quite obviously) and he seemed to get jealous when I was talking to his friend ( he...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Society & Politics

Is playing hard to get really just a sign of low interest?

I know some people who will try their hardest to hide their attraction, because they're really nervous and don't want to show their hand. But I've heard if someone plays hard to get, it's a sign of low interest,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Whats up with this chick, does she like me or just playing games, playing hard to get? Or What?

Ok so thers this chick I'm talking to we've known each other since we were little kids we didn't talk as much tho I only talked to her brother her mom use to take care of us wen we were young I was 9 she was 8 but then...

gt714

Xper 5 Age: 29

Whats my boss' behavior all about?

Please help me to understand my boss' behavior towards me. I've worked with him for approx 3.5 yrs, he is 49 and and I'm 33 , both single. Approx. 2 years ago I was at my desk and passed him something, he interlaced his...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How to build rapport and a connection with a shy girl?

It's discouraging, because shy girls will sometimes act disinterested, and can be confusing. And it's easy to mistake their shyness as disinterest, game-playing or being anti-social and not wanting to talk. So how can I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

I want to talk to a guy at my little cousin's softball games but I'm scared, he is 30 or 31 I'm 22.

I'm 22 I think he is 31 or about to be I'm terrified to talk to him. I catch him looking at me but when my mom and grandma come he doesn't really look. I walked by him out the fence and him and his friend just got really...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm really beginning to think he is shy. I've never encountered his type. Do I contact him first?

So, there is this guy my age - 21 - that is at my college and we had been conversing Tuesday through Friday of last week. We had some really good and really deep intellectual conversation. I felt a possible chemistry. He...

missgirlygirl

Xper 5 Age: 34

Met a couple girls on a meet up site, but are they playing games or not interested?

Okay, so I started talking to girl A first, she seemed okay at first, then I started teasing her about certain things, so she said "I no longer like you" and so I continued teasing her. I said "we should go out sometime...

Rocky88

Xper 5 Age: 37