Search Results: questions about sexuality

DISCLAIMERS:

*define "better" in your own terms.

"dating" refers to going steady, as well as sexuality and all the emotions involved with said above.

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"it's not guys/girls, it's the ones you are choosing, and yes I said CHOOSING."

I have said the above (in some way) on countless questions since I've been on this site.

Some people have a hard time understanding that an entire gender isn't doing the same actions, the people that the person in question CHOOSES TO BE INVOLVED WITH, are the same.

Therefore, it's logical to figure out how to make better choices by figuring out the common threads between the previous bad choices, then learn to make better ones by knowing what traits / locations / scenarios NOT to look for when it comes to "dating".

But instead of doing that to fix the problem, we've seen people say things (especially on this site) such as:

*i'm getting discouraged by guys / girls*

*guys / girls are getting on my nerves*

*guys / girls are all the same*

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...and other sweeping generalizations about the gender.

To make things even worse, the mentality behind these statements give off "bad vibes" from the person saying these things to people, WORSENING their dating situations by their negativity. :-X

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So, why do you think that some people (including yourself) would rather scorn an entire gender, instead of taking responsibility for making bad "dating" choices and work to make better ones?

Please vote and reply as much as you like. Thanks for answering. :)

Guy A: The happy-go-lucky type of guy with the boyish charm. The sweet guy who has the adorable face and the cute personality. Makes you smile and is always a pleasure to be around. Lots of fun and makes you feel warm inside. Reminds you of things such as puppies and little babies (but he's still a grown man!). A child at heart.

Guy B: The more cocky/overconfident type of guy who is exploding with raw sexuality. Always smirking and has the tough attitude and body language. Just looking at him turns you on and makes you want to f*** him. And you know by the way he looks at you he's waiting to pounce and f*** you too. A natural flirt who makes you feel sexy and like a woman.

Both these guy are 23. And could you state your age when you answer the question please. Go anon if you like. And no "in between" answers please. You can only pick one.

The reason I ask is...

...there are SO MANY relationship / sexuality questions that I've seen, that I've answered, that I ultimately asked, or advised, for the asker to talk to their partner about (insert situation / feeling / emotion / issue here).

This honestly leads me to think that there is a large % of users that don't communicate with their partner really well. So many "games", "hint dropping", communicating so dominantly over texts that there's miscommunication, etc.

So, for yourself, on a 1-10 scale (10=highest, 5=average), how well do you communicate with your relationship partner in regards to situations / feelings / emotions / issues that occur?

Do you agree or disagree that a lot of these ?'s are being asked because people don't communicate with their partners very well?

Thanks for your input, everyone. :)