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Okay so at work a man who I believe is still married made a comment about how he was good in bed (earning the nickname as a demon in the sack), that he had had flings, and that his woman didn't necessarily care per se as long as she knew he was screwing someone else (no there was no mention of an open relationship).

It was a random piece of information - out of the utter blue at the end of a good engaging conversation - and not brought up directly again. But there were other times when he indicating interest (e. g. constantly looking over, staring, etc.) and/or trying to earn favor by tasks at work. And then there was a friend of his who informed me that he really, really liked you.

I will admit I am attracted & were he not married I'd definitely give him a go... But moral-wise being married is a no-go zone. Work. People hook up all the time at work, as long as there's nothing saying you can't management generally doesn't care.

My thing is, is as this behavior all started within a month of knowing one another despite claims of respect, etc., he was quite simply after sex... Or was he after sex to see if worth pursuing a rapport with (there are quite a few similarities between us, will be blunt would be a good match).

so that could you control your feelings and you won't deeply fall in love?

if so, why? why you don't want that person even tho you love that person?