I found out that his married?

[Anonymous]

I was introduced to this guy a few months ago by a common friend. After exchanging numbers we became very close to each other and started talking to each other daily. I've never felt attracted to him however, he started showing too much interest. One day he told me he had feelings for me but didn't want to have a serious relationship only casual sex. I said no because I only see him as friend and I'm not attracted to him by any means. We have lots of fun together and he always respected my decision. A few weeks ago I found out his married and his wife is out of the country. I got mad at him for lying and decided to block him everywhere but he managed to reach me out and I gave him a chance to explain himself he said he hasn't been honest and that he loves his wife very much and never cheated on her. I accepted his apologies and said I'll be more than happy to have his friendship and told him we would never get involved. He keeps trying to hook up with me. I really appreciate his friendship but don't know if we should remain friends or not. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

I don't think he sees you as a friend and if he does, certainly isn't respecting you. You've told him you aren't interested, but he's still trying. If he truly respected you he'd stop now.

Also, a guy doesn't develop feelings for you, but only want sex. The only "feeling" is lust. Remember that always, with this or any other guy in the future. Have you ever developed feelings for someone, but only wanted sex? And he loves his wife and has never cheated on her, but he wants casual sex from you? Doesn't that involve cheating?

I say end this completely.

[Opinion Owner]

I'd also question the relationship with this "common friend" that introduced you.

[Asker]

I know. I think he's either very confused or doesn't know how to express himself because I've told him a bunch of times that's considered cheating but he doesn't seem to feel guilty at all about it. Anyways, thank you for taking the time to answer.

[Asker]

This common friend also lied to me. She knew he was married and didn't tell me anything and still introduced us.

[RemoErdosain]

I wouldn't remain friends with such a piece of shit. He wants to keep you around in the hopes of getting laid, and of course he's a cheater: He's trying to hook up with you, come on. I think you should think about what kind of person you will become if you let him be around you, knowing he has a wife that probably loves him, the poor fool, while he's out there trying to get laid

[Changiis07]

I wouldn't remain friends with someone who says that. He says he has never cheated yet wants to hook up with you. Sounds like he is lying about both. He probably has cheated before that's up to you if you want to remain friends

[Asker]

I have mixed feelings abou this because I truly appreciate his friendship however, I'm concerned if he starts developing feelings for me. Thanks for your reply.

[darkcloud1945]

If he is telling you that he is a piece of shit . He is looking for strange pussy

[In_Trance]

This was dumb on your part. You can clearly see where this is going yet you still choose to engage. Smh

[Asker]

This isn't going anywhere because he will never get what he wants from me.