Been texting a guy over 2 years and just found out he is married. He never told me, should I confront him?

[IamthatIam27]

We started texting in 2019 which happens to be the year he got married. Of course, if I knew, I never would have entertained him for a second. We developed a connection online, and we have a lot In common. He said he felt I was his soul mate and his 'twin flame'. However we stopped texting in 2020. I then reached out last month to understand what was happening. We started talking again and catching up. He said things to me like we complete each other, he wants to marry me which is, I know, totally insane. Yesterday I did a little digging online and ended up finding pictures of him getting married 2 years ago. I nearly had a panic attack. I couldn't believe my eyes. I feel very sad about this. I know it's only online, and it's not like we really know each other. Would it be best to block him or to confront him or to even ghost him? Any advice would be helpful. I would like to know why he behaved the way he did. But if he is really a player, it's not like he will own up..

[spartan55]

You really think he is going to tell you anything that you want to hear? You are very naive if you do. Besides, knowing why he did it does nothing to help you. If it were me, I would be doing some serious self evaluation and figure out why I was so blind to who that person was. That's how you prevent it from happening again. He can't help you with that. WHY, WHY... he is a piece of shit, that's why. Mystery solved.

[Lockey_]

Sorry to hear that you had a panic attack because of this.
What this guy does exceeds all limits. It would be interesting what his wife has got to say about it but there is a chance she is fine with it because she knows him very well.
Anyway, as it was already commented here, if i was you, i'd just block and forget him.

[Aurora1010]

Confront him and tell and ask him all you need to know for closure then block him

[Z199617]

Confront him with his wife their watch him shit himself. Have met him in person?

[Z199617]

Thank You

[Albino010]

He is definitely fooling you, i personally would just block and move on, because, i don't think he will give you a proper answer.

[Fireguy17]

tell him the reason you will not be contacting him anymore

[IamthatIam27]

Yes although part of me wishes to remain silent..

[Fireguy17]

no one gets up early to have those conversations, but once it is done and you move on you will feel so much better about it.

[nawtee_me]

confront his wife instead... show her the messages... Let her confront him...

[In_Trance]

Seems like a waste of time to me but do whatever you want

[noohair]

Do you want to get hurt? He is playing.

[IamthatIam27]

Certainly not as I am hurt enough as it is.

[andy530]

I would ask him about it personally