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Search Results: approaching girls in a bar
Girls, What race are you and would you date a black guy?
I'm a Jamaican born in New York and 25 years old. I never dated a woman in my life and having a hard time getting a girl that I'm attracted to. Sometimes I wonder if my skin color or race is what pulling me back from...
Anonymous
(36-45) How do I get the balls to approach girls at bars?
It's ridiculous... I've been to prison, to hospitals, lived homeless... and I am still scared to approach a girl at a bar... I don't know what to say... it's ridiculous...
Anonymous
(36-45) Friend only wants to go to the bar?
We quit hanging out for a couple years and started hanging out again and I come to find he's all interested in hitting on girls now, which before he wasn't. The problem is that's all he wants to do. I'll suggest other...
red324
Guru Age: 37 Why are strippers easier to talk to than real girls?
Strippers are easier to approach and make friendly conversations with than normal girls in parks, coffee shops, bars, school, etc. Strippers are more likely to listen to what you say and do her part in helping keep the...
Anonymous
(36-45) I Want to Start a New Relationship, but I'm Having Trouble. What Are Some Good Strategies?
I broke up with my fiancee a couple of months ago, and I want to move on to my next relationship. I met my ex on a dating site, so I've been trying that approach again. However, so far I've only gotten one date out of it,...
emmeriver
Xper 4 Age: 38 Is she into me or just flirty?
There is this girl that lives in my dorm building. We met earlier this year at the bars (my friend group is friends with her friend group). Anyway, after that we usually said hi to one another when we saw each other. At...
nym1962
Xper 5 Age: 31 Girls, Girls How would rate me?
If i approached you in a bar would you consider getting to know me? other things, im 6ft 1i, punjabi...
Anonymous
(30-35) How to start up a conversation at a bar?
I don't really know what to say to girls after saying "hey how's it going my name is..." After that I don't know what to do lol should I tell them they're hot or something or start asking random questions im not sure how...
DubstepRaver
Xper 5 Age: 31 How to pick up / hook up with girls at bars?
I am in Bali right now. I just took a walk along the beach at night, there are many different beach bars. But unfortunately I don't see any much potential there, as nobody is alone, every group stays at their own table....
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, last time you approached a random girl outside of a club/bar etc?
like just a random girl on the street, or bus, or whatever... When was the last time?
Anonymous
(30-35) How to meet girls when I have no free time?
i really want to avoid online dating apps. i would love to have a serious girlfriend, but tbh wouldn't mind 1 or 2 hookups (not a must!) till i meet my love. finding something serious online seems impossible, and for a...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, Having a very hard time getting dates, note sure why?
I struggle getting dates a lot, I've asked out about 40+ girls and only 3 agreed and none of them went past a first date. I think I'm pretty good lookIng but have little luck. Looking for some advice as to how to do...
Jkerr_505
Xper 4 Age: 32 Girls, I have a huge attraction to guys who are tall, strong, confident and dominant, but they turn out to be jerks. Can you relate?
I'm attractive, have an hourglass shape and a flat belly. I met such a guy at a bar and he approached me confidently, complimented me and made me laugh. He had some crazy stories to tell. We went on a few dates. One day I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Gay guys, are you willing to have sex with a hot girl if you had the opportunity?
Out of curiosity, how would a gay guy react to the situation? Let's say a drunk chick approached you in a bar and didn't know you were Gay... I'm tiotally straight by the way
Anonymous
(36-45) I periodically get (blatantly) picked up by very attractive women who are kinda nuts. Been happening my whole life. Why does this happen?
Ever since I was a teen, just out of the blue I'll land a whopper of babe that others would say is out of my league - I'm average height/looks, pretty nice body, but nothing too distinctive. I say land a whopper, but it...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Girls, What do you think about this guy I met?
I met him at a restaurant/bar my friends and I were hanging out at. He is tall, strong looking and has traits that attract me. He is confident and fearless and a bit aggressive. He approached me, complimented me and made...
Anonymous
(36-45) A More Neutral Look at the 'Friendzone'
The friendzone is today almost certainly the most exhaustively discussed of the relationship woes. On the Internet, it is like a loose beast and even for the most intelligent men (and women) it is a difficult concept to...
ResearcherGuy
Xper 5 Age: 32 Re-conceptualizing Approaching Girls
By far the most difficult thing for guys in dating is approaching new girls and the second is doing it with success. There's so much information out there about learning not to fear rejection, lines to get good responses,...
pavlove
Editor Age: 34 Do you girls do this thing called THE PLANT?
Was just reading this: The Plant Perhaps the most obvious approach invitation, although not without its own challenges. A girl goes to where you are - seated at the bar, leaning against a wall, in a specific aisle in the...
Anonymous
(36-45) Girls, Ladies please help?
I am what would be considered a shy guy. Although some girls do say they like shy guys, most don't for sure and I understand why. I guess there's a feeling of uncertainty and maybe a fear of issues that person might have....
Anonymous
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