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I work with a guy who is divorcing. We have been friends for years. We got in an argument a month ago. He quit coming to see me. Completely ghosted me. He was coming everyday before for months. I went to apologize to him. Everything was great. Sex talk. Sweet nothings. Then he ghosts me again. After I left, he said to his coworker "why would I want to get in another relationship when I'm trying to get out of this one"? This was a guy that was going out of his way to see me. I don't know what to think. Why are you being romantic then telling our coworker this? Unfortunately his wife works here too. I'm crazy about him but I didn't say anything about getting in a relationship, so why would he say that. I think working on a friendship is first especially during this time. If he doesn't want anything, he has had a year to tell me. Did he just not want my coworker knowing he cares for me? Is he confused? I don't know what to think. If he doesn't have feelings for me, why is he ghosting (avoiding) me. He is MIA. When I'm around, he is sweet as pie. One minute he acts like he forgave me and whispers sweet nothings. Then He tells my coworker that. We are a no fault state. She can't take him to the cleaners. Me and a couple of other people really thought he had /has feelings toward me. I'm confused.

we dated for about 2 months, before that he was a friend for about a year. At the beginning, we agreed that we didn't want anything serious. We both work long hours, and his last relationship still has him a bit leary. We would see eachother about once a week. We connected, conversation never felt forced, and we always had fun with eachother. We were very affectionate with eachother, we fooled around, and we had sex once. The last time i saw him, we went out to lunch, and after i went with along with him on some errands he had to run. We had a good time as always. Thats the last time i spoke to him. A full month ago.

And here's the best part, i saw him on the street the ither day. I think he saw me too, and when he did he darted across the street. So i think he's avoiding me. Awesome.

i don't expect anything serious to develop out of this, but at the same time i'd still like to speak with him and see how he's doing. Should i even bother getting in contact?