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. we met up on Thursday and quite honestly it was amazing she was everything i could hope for in a person there was constant joking and laughing with general goofing around and pushing eventually we sat down where we talked and held these long gazes after a while she cuddled up to me and we just talked about us and that we wanted this to be serious at the end of all this i gave her a hug and got on the bus home. All was great from this point we planned to meet the next day but postponed it due to weather.
We met for the second time same place on Saturday but she was different i felt no chemistry there was a lingering silence and it felt horrible this seemed like a complete different girl not one i shared all the lovely memories with from the day before i asked her why she was acting different and she said im just not in a good mood. It continued to be quite awkward there was no flirting no chemistry while i forced a smile out of it nor did she try to initiate any physical contact like the time before. near the end of it when we said goodbye there was no hug no lasting eye contact it just felt so horrible
when i got home i apologised to her because i thought i did something wrong but she insists its just a bad mood i ask her if she's still interested and she says yes, later on that night we discuss about a next time and i ask her where she would like to go but then she says
''I don't know maybe we should slow down a bit, like not get into anything before we've seen each other a few more times (; ''
then i ask her to explain her responce
''like after the stuff you said today it makes me wonder if we haven't thought about it enough first''
suddenly her minds changed and she doesn't think we can be in a relationship this quickly
i feel hurt from this and im not sure what to say or think of it could anyone please advice

so from a girls point of view what is she doing ://

Thz girl knows i lyk her as i tld her. Her reply was i am young in age by 2yrs to her it won't wrk. keeping this in mnd please read the folwng...

This girl I wrk with is very outgoing with others at my job but is shy and nrvz arnd me. Whnevr we briefly talk she seems very very shy and nervous but I seem to make her laugh a lot and put a smile on her face but i dnt knw if that is a nervous thing. we work on the same shift but hardly get a real solid chance to talk 1-1 wth each othr. I've caught her glancing at me many times and when we do talk she is real fidgety and can't seem to look directly at me mostly looks down while spking or hearing me spk. She can hang and talk with the other guys and coworkers without any problem and seems to be very outgoing and relaxed just not with me and I do not know if that is a good or bad thng; She will flirt sometimes and other times ignore me. Over my time working i have found myself more and more attracted to this person and have tried asking her out for casual meet up outside of work (getting a bite to eat, catch a movie). I am confident while spking to her and thng is she knows that. so we both are kinda fidgety whn she is tight lipped. she recently accepted one of my offers to go out to eat but I decided to invite some of our other coworkers along to ease the tension. She opened up a little more and again I had her laughing and smiling and lukng at me after blatantly flirting with a guy to see what i do. I have her # unfortunately she told me not to call or message. but She calls me occsionaly recnt wks. When i call her she ain't picking. Prbly i thnk she feels i may ask her out. I wanna take slow she seem real shy/awkward silences around each other one on one but I want to get to know her more I dont know if I am handling this the rite way or if I should say I lyk her again. I think she likes me at least . recently i caught her glancing at me twice lyk frm crnr of eye. nw she stpd lukng @ me strght.