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Basically, I was meant to be walking over to his house to visit him tonight after I'd eaten my dinner.

However, he lives in the same suburban area as a guy who tried to force himself (sexually) when I was drunk at the age of nineteen (5 years ago). To be honest, that whole situation took its toll on me, and I never wanted to see the guy's face again, which makes it risky when my current boyfriend lives pretty close to him.

So yeah, as I was about to turn into my boyfriends street tonight, the guy who tried to take advantage of me turned into the street driving his car. I kinda slowed my pace in the hope he'd go into his house before I walked on to the street. But he didn't, he kinda loitered in his car. So I decided not to take the turn off, I just kept walking away from the situation.

I asked my boyfriend to come get me, and I explained why I didn't walk down to his house. He was clearly annoyed (he had been working all day) and seemed moody with me. He then said 'I don't understand why you couldn't just walk 30 metres to my house with your hood up, you had to call me instead' - which got me upset and angry because I really didn't wanna face that guy, it would only bring back bad memories for me.

So I basically then left my boyfriends house after his comment and he was like 'oh so you'll walk past his house now?' And I was so annoyed I was just like 'watch me'. At which point he raced out the house after me and offered to take me home or back to his house if I wanted.

I opted for home, and then he admitted he was being an 'ass hole' but by this time I was crying anyway. So I just exited his car and haven't heard from him since. Did I overreact or am I right in saying he could have been more understanding?