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So my friend got irritated with me because I kept asking her if she had a problem with me because she was being rude. She blew up on me and said yes because I keep asking her. So I left her alone and then I came back normal. I said sorry I won’t ask again. Just personal issues. She just replied with an ok emoji. (Which I thought was odd)

so I sent a text saying what’s going on? And then I sent a funny pic. She ignored the first part and sent a dry answer. Again I’m being normal and sending what we usually do. She’s just being dry.

So it furthered my anxiety and I just finally told her why I kept asking if she had a problem with me. I felt I was being used and she tolerated me blah blah. I also told her I suffer from anxiety and if that’s too much then I will just walk away and I’m sorry.

She didn't reply for a day so I gave up. She sent a message saying my lack of confidence is turning everything about uneasiness about her and she hopes I find help.

I was shocked bevause cause she was quick to kick me to the curb. She called me 10 minutes later. But I couldn’t answer because I was at work. So I texted her saying okay I won’t disagree. I do have low confidence but I work on it. I don’t want to lose her as a friend but I’m still someone that needs to learn about others.

She didn't reply. So when I got on break I called her back. She didn’t answer. So I’m like you know what I’m not going to beg for her friendship. I sent a final message saying that I guess I was right that she was just using me and I was hoping to talk it out at least and said goodbye. Actually it was a bit longer but I won’t put the whole thing.

What should i have done?

I wear only padded bras. I have bigger breasts. I'm thinking about switching to only unpadded bras/bralettes. I feel that padded bras are like a lie to to the world and something women only wear for other people. I have big confidence issues with my breasts so it would be a huge leap. It gives me anxiety thinking about doing it. My breasts are my biggest insecurity. I feel like I would be less attractive.

The guy I'm dating has some self esteem issues. He's been cheated on 3 times straight and been bullied when he was younger. He looks good, is intelligent and and funny. But. He thinks so little of himself. He doesn't appreciate himself and thinks that people sees him the way he sees himself (annoying, weird, etc, you name it) Now. Should I help him with his struggles (I know how to deal with this since I went through it too. Friends of mine also become a better person thanks to my "advice" I give out) or should I move on and find someone who already has confidence. It can be pretty tiring dealing with a super emotional guy who overthinks and expects the worst.