Hello and welcome everyone! It's your boy Hal. If you're a person with self-confidence issued, you're at the right place. Let's check this one out quick-
We need confidence in different fields of life. Whether it be handling a client for tomorrow's meeting or influencing others to get your work done in time.So, we all know it's quite essential but the main question is 'How to increase it and imply in our day-to-day life?'. I'll be as much practical as I can and will try to give you some practical tips instead of thousand bookish things that you can find over hundreds of site over internet. So why am I writing this? Cause I felt like it and actually, I am, or you can say, I was someone with poor self confidence but now things are abit different. Thanks to my dad who helped me very much regarding this and yeah he is a man of extreme confidence. He pushed me into everything, literally everything whether it be shopping, booking tickets, arranging passes(not online lol, it won't help), other chores. I've got my personal bank account and it's more than a year since I'm operating it and my dad has never given a visit or checked my bank balance, investment etc. Okay okay, I'll stop my hierarchial bible now😂
Some tips I'd give you-
1) Stop speaking in low tone/Stammering- I've faced this problem bunch of times. Earlier, I used to speak in low tone and stammer a lot due to nervousness. Believe me it makes you look really absent-minded. It's a mark of poor self-confidence. So, try improving your communication skills first and tbh it won't come out of nowhere in just a day. You'll have to work on it regularly.
No one becomes CHAMPION in just one day.
2) Don't run from responsibilities- Try to take more and more responsibilities on your shoulders instead of leaving it for someone else. In this selfish world, no one loves the person who takes favours instead they like persons with some leadership quality- those who aren't afraid to take responsibilities. I used to run from them instead of facing them. The fear of failure always used to overpower the excitement of reward. I think maybe I'm still running but definitely slower than before.
Even the "Fastest Man Alive" couldn't run from his responsibilities then Who are you, bruh?
3) You are the best- You read this, your jaws dropped, and you said "Whaat?😱" Yes, you are the best! The most important and I guess the easiest thing so far in this to-do list. You have to repeat it until it fits in your mind. If some other person of same age can do it, why can't you? Do they inhale nitrogen instead of oxygen? Do they eat gold and silver instead of food? No dude, they fill their cup with confidence instead of coffee.
Fake it till you make it. I repeat, Fake it till you make it. Period.
4) Be street smart- Interact with more and more people. The people you encounter is directly proportional to the tips and tricks you gather to tackle the adverse situations. By meeting several people, you'll be able to understand the psychology of different people, you'll know how to persuade others.
Street teaches you more than books.
5) Don't think about others- This is the main reason why some people don't even try. This is the ultimate tip that will work in each and every case- Don't even think about it. You're going to face something but you avoid it because there will be people who will see you getting insulted if you fail. That makes me laugh hard. I mean just think about it- At one side, you've got something you want and on the other, some strangers who don't even know you or if they know you, they are your classmates, colleagues and bachmates. Lemme tell you that these things are really common in schools, work etc. Several pther people who were in that institution have already seen all this, this isn't really new for them. Everyone forgets these things within two days except your friends who will mock you till you die😂😂 Even I've got insulted quite a times while figuring things out but I'm still happy I guess lol. My dad says that losing is not bad. Not learning from previous defeat is bad but tbh it's still much better from not trying at all. I feel pity for those who don't even try. Unfortunately, they can't even lose something.
Every failure teaches us something that no success can- working harder to hit again.
Enough for this time lol
Thanks a lot for reading!
I love you all❤️
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