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im in a great dilemma. my boyfriend and i broke up because he cheated on me. he might sound like an asshole but trust me he's a really great boyfriend - other than when he cheated. for my birthday last February, he did so so so much for me. he bought me lots of stuff, brought me out for dinner, surprised me. he really put in a lot of effort to make me happy. so my concerns are:

if i wish him, what if he takes hours to reply because he's busy calling someone else or gaming? i would be damn hurt by it. im saying this because 1 week after the broke up, i missed him too much and texted him but he took hours to reply me bc he was busy gaming. and if it happens, it'll show that my birthday wish means nothing to him while it meant so much to me. I'll seem so pathetic and I'll be so hurt.
BUT, if he misses me, the birthday wish could make his day. and im scared that maybe he's looking forward to a wish? what if he gets hurt because i didn't send him one.

honestly i think that the chances of him taking hours to reply me bc he's busy is 80%. should i not send him one then? but he did so much for me...

we dated 9 months and he did a lot of nice stuff for me - trust me, 85% of the boyfriends won't do them. But we broke up bc he was unable to be loyal and cheated on me twice.

We broke up 3 days ago, and i was really depressed. But it seems like he already moved on. He has been playing games until late night and calling friends. and when i came back to text him bc i missed him so much, he didn't really concentrate on talking to me and was busy gaming. He said it's because we broke up and didn't talk for days and he's trying to move on so he can't just suddenly talk to me like normal. He could move on and distracted himself so well while im suffering and dying. it seems like the breakup didn't matter at all to him. does this mean that he didn't care about me and the relationship? but why would he do so much for me in the past?