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I accidentally found in his computer, that he is a member in a weird forum, and he has some extreme ideas about women's rights. He specifically wrote in a recent article of his.

"Women should be excluded: From voting, from attending college, from the military, and from politics. Giving women too much power and too many freedoms, lead us to the shitstorm we currently experience as a nation but as a planet as well. Destruction of the nuclear family, emotional political decisions, emasculation of men, misandry in a mass level, consumerist culture, slut culture, lost of respect and bounds, disturbance of the gender roles dynamics and the list goes on."

Can't hide the fact i was shocked! I never knew what opinions he held deep inside, and he was never vocal about them, not even hinting.

He's 39 years old. He's 5'8.5" with black hair and brown eyes. He's an Orthodox Jew from Iraq. He immigrated to America as a teenager. He's open to having a relationship with a gentile and keeping it a secret. He raises and slaughters his own cows and chickens, and then butchers them. He believes that some criminals, such as Nazi War criminals and Islamic terrorists, deserve to be stoned to death. He hates feminists and liberals because he think that they are trying to destroy family life, gender roles and religious traditions. He tolerates people that are different from him to some degree, but he does draw lines for them that they can't pass. However, his liberal/secular jewish acquaintance describes him as transphobic, homophobic, and ultra-orthodox, but he tells her he's okay that his beliefs make him intolerant and ultra-orthodox.

He becomes friends with the most strangest and questionable men in his neighborhood, which mostly consist of Jews. Some of his friends are religious Muslims and Sikhs. One of his closest, Orthodox friends is the most intolerant troublemaker in his apartment and neighborhood. They both complain about how feminism is cancer, how women these days aren't traditional and submissive enough, how there is nothing wrong with having more than one wife according to pure Jewish law, and how women are becoming terrible moms and wives. If any of his friends' complain to him about their kids misbehaving, then he would scold their kids and his friends are okay with that.

He has a hereditary disease that can be deadly if he doesn't take proper care of it. He's an introvert. He's a family man and both of his parents are dead. He regularly takes care of his younger siblings and his single, crazy aunt. But he's a virgin with no kids.

Man A: He's 39 years old. He's 5'8.5" with black hair and brown eyes. He's a Middle Eastern, Orthodox Jew from Iraq. He immigrated to America as a teenager. He's willing to have a relationship with a gentile and keep it a secret. He's a family man and both of his parents are dead. He regularly takes care of his younger siblings and his single aunt but he's a virgin with no kids. He has a hereditary disease that can be deadly if he doesn't take care of it. He's an introvert. He hates feminists and liberals because he think that they are trying to destroy gender roles and tradition. He tolerates people that are different from him to some degree, but he does draw lines for them that they can't pass. He believes that some criminals deserve to be stoned to death.

Man B: He's the same age as Man A, has the same opinions as Man A, and is friends with Man A. He's over 6 feet, and has blue eyes and reddish brown hair. He's an Arab Muslim and he immigrated to America when he was a teenager. He's okay with dating and marrying a non muslim, and doesn't require her to convert to Islam. He's a family man. He pays great to respect to his father, and his father lives in his house as well. His an old, quiet and friendly man. He has 5 kids from his previous wife (who is muslim too) and he has full custody of all five kids. He is very protective of his 5 kids and he puts them as his first priority. He doesn't want you to raise them, discipline them or teach them things that goes against his parenting. The court did not give his previous wife any visitation rights or any legal rights concerning the children. He doesn't desire anymore children. He's okay with having more children if only his new wife wants to have a child and agrees to allow the child to be raised up as a muslim. He and his previous wife are arch enemies. The previous wife does write letters to some of the kids and the kids do write letters back, but she doesn't want to see any of them ever again.

Personally I wouldn't actually mind obeying/submitting to a man.

However, for most people in general, I don't think it's fair that in traditionalist relationships, the women are expected to obey the men. Especially in cases where the woman is a mother, she contributes as much to the family as the man does: https://www.wwaytv3.com/2018/03/19/study-motherhood-is-equivalent-of-2-5-full-time-jobs/