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So I am a senior in high school, my brother is a junior. I have never been seen as popular. I have always been seen as the quiet weird nerd. I have never gone to any of the school functions except once for extra credit. I don't have many friends and don't go out to hang out with friends much (maybe once or twice a year). My grades are average, a little bit below average. No one usually wants to work with me on group projects. Guys don't really look at me (except one, my ex).

My brother is popular. Lots of friends, women love him, makes straight A's. He goes to ALL of the school functions. He hangs out with his friends more than one time a week.

Tonight we had a school function, my brother went with his friends. My mother insisted I go but I don't have anyone to go with. So I stayed home. She always tries to get me to go hang out with friends, she doesn't realise that my friends bail on me or that they play on their phones the whole time.

Should I feel bad? She use to think I was this outgoing chick with loads of guys and friends until recent, and she looked so hurt. When she was my age she was super popular and had lots of guys.

I am not even planning on going to prom which upsets my mother. I just have no one to go to, no one have asked me.

Should I even go to prom? I don't have a date. My mom says that I can go alone, but is it even worth it? I kind of finished high school early, so it's not like I have anyone I know to go with. I kind of don't even fit in, y'know? I mean, I fit In, but no one really is my friend. It's all just an act. I just feel that this might be really important to me. So should I go alone? Or should I just skip it and stay home? Thank you (:

Growing up, I was the very definition of a late bloomer! I went on not one single date throughout high school and didn’t even have a date at proms or homecomings. I didn’t experience my very first kiss until I was 18 years old. I had never been romantically held in a man’s arms until I was legally an adult at 18. No man had ever seen me naked or experienced me sexually until I was 21 years old. The chance to practice sexual intimacy never happened until after I had been on this Earth for just over TWO DECADES and it has done absolute wanders for my journey! :D Back in high school, my inexperience used to make me feel self-conscious like I was missing out on some grand beauty in life. But now that I’m getting older and witnessing what early exposure to sexuality and romance can do to someone’s spirit and their future, I am SO happy and proud of myself for reserving these experiences for specifically only for guys who truly deserve it. It has made it so much easier to upkeep my emotional, psychological, and sexual health. Sex and romance have not distracted me from fulfilling my goals and making my dreams come true. It’s so much easier to just stay focused and commit my precious, divine energy to things that aren’t so risky.

Now I’m aware that this is not the route for everyone. Things happen and this path can become damn near impossible to follow. I just had to share my experience and the power it has had over my life’s direction : ) There’s nothing quite like the satisfaction of sharing your body with a grown man who’s operating on an entirely higher quality vs. sharing such impactful experiences with little boys who are too premature to handle things correctly. Feels so amazing, the wait was totally worth it! Hopefully, this post can inspire someone! What about you? What are your experiences in relation to this topic?