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I'm experiencing some sorrow and just overall "bleh" feeling with life.. End of April I met this guy.. Seriously have never been so stoked about anyone before. Everything to his name was lovely. He wasn't perfect of course but I just was soo enamored with him.

Things are fizzling between us. Mostly because he doesn't want commitment with anyone now and maybe I'm a bit inpatient, but I also know how I want to be treated. That said, I have to walk away from this... And it's really sad to me.. Bc of the what could have been thought. I'm not going to say goodbye to him, I'll just stop trying and I'm sure he won't come after me. It just sucks because I like him a lot and I was so excited about the thought of being in his life... It all felt too good to be true, and I guess it was bc now I haven't heard from him in a few days and it just feels like he lost interest. And then I see new girls following him on Instagram and him following back. I catch on to people's change of behavior easily and I don't know I'm just sad. Maybe I came on too strong, I don't know. I just was really down for the guy. Ugh this sucks. I hate dead ends with people :( mostly bc I know I'd give them my best.

The guy I'm seeing and I differ on this. He sees it as something that casually happens after a month or so and that he can still dump me anytime he likes, so being in a "relationship" isn't that big of a deal. He doesn't want me to keep him waiting forever on a relationship, though he doesn't want to push me into anything.

I, on the other hand, feel that it is a more serious commitment to someone that says you're interested in getting to know and love them for the long haul. It's kinda like saying, "I don't wanna give up on you and I want to make this work no matter what."

So, fellow GAGers, what does a relationship mean to you?