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I’ve known him a while and we do flirt together a lot. He owns a cafe and he’s 12 years older than me. Sometimes the flirting gets sexual and sometimes he has become “jealous” when he’s seen me with other guys or become moody if he thinks I ignored him.

So today I went to buy coffee and I was wearing gym clothes. He put his hand out to shake mine but I could see there was rubbish in his hand. He told me his number was written on it (joke)

He asked me if I’d put it in my bra (sometimes I keep money there) and he started messing around by grabbing my purse and pulling my top forward. He then tried to put my purse down my top.

He cuddled me and made me kiss him on the cheek. He was asking me if I had a nice day and if I’m still happy at my job. He kept looking into my eyes and down to my lips.

Then he belched after having a drink and we were laughing about it. When I left, he gave me another hug and kissed me again.

I met my boyfriend 4.5 months ago whom I find to be as career oriented as I am and shares the same interests & visions as I have. Things went well since then.

Before I go for more details I need to mention the dating scene here where I live does need you to state you're exclusive otherwise you're free to fool around. At that time I was seeing someone I had been crazy about for so long but it was going nowhere in the end. As for him he broke up 3 weeks before we met. Hence 2 weeks after we met he asked if I was seeing someone else and he asked to be exclusive, I accepted. I only broke up with the other guy 3-4 weeks after. He was well aware of it and understood my situation.

The main problem here is that I'm moving to another country soon. (He's not from where I'm from). He initially did plan to move out of the country as well next year but there was no fixed plans yet.
2 months after we got exclusive he decided he wants to pursue this relationship further and go with me to where I'm moving, which to be fair is closer to his home country. I kept questioning his decision but he was very sure he wants to do it as according to him it's not going to mess up his career etc as he was planning to move out anyway.

Lately I have been making a huge fuss and picked fights because I'm questioning his decision and I honestly think he's desperate. I'm running out of time as I'm moving out next month and I'm getting more and more anxious about whether to continue this relationship or not.
Is he desperate or am I just being paranoid? I have a history of messing up my relationship I don't want to go through that again.

I’m 15 and I want to go to PureGym. Is it okay for me to lie and say I’m 16? I would look for an alternative gym but I want to do classes and all gyms require you to be 16 to do classes anyway. I’m mature for my age. Most people are surprised when I tell them my age and say that they thought I was ‘17’ and I’ve even had in my ‘early 20s’ a couple of times. I’ll be going with two friends (who look their age) and will not be messing around. Could we get ID-ed and kicked out? Could lying about my age get me into any legal issues? If you were an adult would you dislike a 15 year old in your gym? Have you ever lied about your age at a gym?