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Whilst having drinks with some of my girlfriends this afternoon , we somehow or other got onto the subject of how we each of us typically fasten our bras when alone.

I thought I would poll as to how you fasten your bras, and perhaps the reasons why.

Do you fasten your brs from your front and then turn it around? why?

Or do you fasten from behind? why?

As for me... I fasten from behind... It's the way I was taught by my mommy , and so it just comes naturally to me.

How about You?

By the time I have a child I'll be dedicating all my patience, time and energy in educating them. I believe you can discipline without the use of belts, sandals or household objects used to subdue a child by force and make them fear you.

If my future child only respects me through fear then I would be very disappointed. That means the whole purpose of distinguishing from right to wrong and developing a real conscience is lost. That would mean to me they haven't learn anything.
'' I won't lie because mommy is gonna get so mad, she'll beat me''... wrong reason
'' I won't lie because it's wrong and I won't be able to sleep well''... right reason

I once explained this on a discussion forum and some male poster replied with an ''You must be white''. He was surprised when I said nope, I'm an hispanic (Peruvian) woman that disagrees with this cycle of dysfunctional parenting.

Off course this is one of our stereotypes we're known for, esp for Mexican mothers:

It doesn't matter how cute hot or hiw mature your son is babying him puts a girl off. when i see that I red flag him immediatley because there is no way that I am going to date a baby. I want a man who will me feel secured sheltered and make me feel protected. not some baby i have to shelter protect because his "mommy" fucks him up mentally. A girls got needs and by babying yourvteenager makes him unequipped to handle her needs... thats why I date 29 year olds. because although 16 year old guys are hot and sexy combined with "Mature" their mommy come and turns him into 19 year old Ben10