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Search Results: no spark at a date
The girl I truly love and could've been with is now with someone, and I am in so much pain. How do I cope?
22 y.o. male. Right now there is only one girl I really want to be with. Among all the girls I've met in my life, she's the one and only ideal one. She's amazing in so many ways. No other girl makes me as happy as her,...
Anonymous
(36-45) Blind date!!!!! guys help :)
okay so I'm going on a blind date in 2 days time with this guy I met on facebook. (NEED TIPS) well basically he was interested in me so sent me a message and then he invited me on mxit (which is like MSN on the phone)...
Anonymous
(30-35) Slept with him too soon...oh, and he's a co-worker (can you say 'cliche'?)
I’ve never slept with or dated a co-worker before. We’re both Sr. staff and on different branches of the org chart. No real conflict there. I’m 45 and not naïve. I’ve been with the same firm for 2 yrs. He’s been there for...
Gleebee
Xper 3 Age: 60 He really liked me, then randomly ignored me and got a new girlfriend. Why?
alrighty. this is a rather long story. a few months ago, me and this guy met. we're in high school. sparks flew instantly. we talked nonstop, hung out all the time, it was perfect. he always hugged me and held hands and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Thinking about the ex, while with a new perfect guy?
My ex and I dated for 7 years. We broke up about 3 months ago. No apparent reason. Just that we are seniors in college, haven't dated anyone else, and there wasn't a spark anymore he would say. I was devastated, but when...
confusedcat100
Xper 4 Age: 37 How to Fail at Falling in Love
Rather than letting nature takes its course when it comes to falling in love, many needy singles believe that by attaching ourselves to another person, we become instantly whole. Complete. All our needs are met. Case...
TheParrotts
Xper 5 Age: 51 I was dating my friends sister for about a month...
I was dating my friends sister for about a month we first started talking on facebook. Then one day we went out for two dates and then the third date we kissed and made out in a park and started to get more serious. We...
Anonymous
(36-45) Just okay first meet with online date, would you accept invitation to second date?
Would you give him a second chance if the first date wasn't amazing, just okay? Has anybody done this before and had in turn into a happy relationship? Or if there is no "spark" from the first meet, do you think it will...
Anonymous
(36-45) Which one should I choose??
Hey guys, I'm caught between two minds about which girl I should pursue. One girl I was dating for around three months before I had to move away to a different city for work. We have that instant spark but I am so busy...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do I pass up chances with guys to go on dates? and why do I feel no spark with some of them?
My question is somewhat typical, I talk to a lot of guys on text and they seem to be interested in me,. most of them, when I talk to them I feel no spark at all, sometimes they try to carry on the conversation with me and...
naturaldisaster
Xper 5 Age: 36 He asked me to hang so...then flakes on me. Wtf does this mean??
On monday, my ex asked me on a friend date this weekend and said he wants to work on our friendship...and everyone kept telling me its to see if there is a spark still and to just hang out. Even though we already are good...
Anonymous
(36-45) Can I text him again just to say hey or ask him a random question or would he think I'm desperate?
I had 2 dates with this one guy that lasted for hours (no sex), he was really into me, I was into him and we were supposed to have our 3rd date when his grandmother (whom he loved like a mother) died and suddenly his...
brenda23
Xper 3 Age: 40 Am I ever going to feel butterflies again?
A few weeks ago I ended things with this guy I was crazy about because he couldn't be exclusive or date me. We were "talking" for almost 4 months before I ended things.. About a week ago I met this other guy who on...
Anonymous
(36-45) Guys are confusing as all hell!! Why the head-trip?
You go out with a girl on a few dates. Sparks fly left and right. You both initiate communication on a daily basis (or almost daily) and then you just disappear! This has happened to me more that once within this past...
confusedgirl33
Xper 5 Age: 48 To break up, or not to break up? Answers Please!
Been "with" my Boy Friend since I was 15 and he was 19 (obvs too young to date) so we didn't start officially dating until I was 18 (about a year ago). Right before we started dating we went on a little break because I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Want to move faster but complicated?
please help here's the deal I've been basically "dating" this girl for about 2 months now and I'm absolutely crazy about her. we went on around 6 dates before I kissed her and everything was going great... then outta no...
slugger
Xper 5 Age: 38 Does he still care or is he just testing the waters? What the heck does this mean?
My ex and I met right before I moved to another state. The spark was so intense though, that despite the distance we both wanted a relationship out of it. So for a while we dated. It wasn't easy, due to the distance,...
Snovak
Xper 5 Age: 39 Guy runs hot and cold..opinions? Advice?
I met this guy through Craigslist in almost two months ago. We met at an ice cream shop somewhere between where we both live. The date went well enough, we talked, had ice cream, said goodbye and that was it. I wasn't...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Coworker - hot and cold signs - what to do?
I'm interested in a guy at work and but for some reason he's really cooled off. He asked me to lunch my first day at work and made sure I got the lay of the land. Since then we were going out for lunches (few extra long...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Recent Ex Being Very Weird (even his friends are confused!)
Sorry, it's a long one. My ex and I had a fantastic relationship. Minimal drama, that instant spark that carried on throughout the entire relationship. We both discussed marriage and kids, said I love you, etc. He broke...
Anonymous
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