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I don’t need anyone to judge me and be mean. Me and this guy have been talking ( I’m in an abusive relationship and I don’t know how to get out So please don’t judge) well we have cheated together ( I’m not proud but it helped me know I’m getting out relationship) he said he didn’t want to date obviously. And he doesn’t date. However he has an ex in the picture that he talks to like they are dating. Well honestly i was about to leave my boyfriend for this guy ( he seemed like he secretly wants me to anyway) we’ll all of a sudden he starts talking to his ex again. And had Thanksgiving with her. Me and him hook up and we are co coworkers and I know he likes me but now he won’t hook up with me anymore. I think because of his ex however he doesn’t have a problem with always trying to tell people about me and bragging about me and touching me. I’ll ask to hang out he will pretend he wants to but then when it comes down to it he makes excuses. He even said I needed to chill out because I’m overthinking it. But he’s acting funny. Yet will say he wants me and stuff it’s like he doesn’t want me to leave him alone yet won’t hook up ( and he said I give him the best head and sex ever) he says we are talking to so what does that even mean? My situation is messy af ik but I just don’t know what to do. Anytime we are at work he always tries to get my attention and always wants to touch meand talk so what gives why won’t he hang out with me anymore and he even claims he want to sowhy doesn’t he?

I don’t need anyone to judge me and be mean. Me and this guy have been talking ( I’m in an abusive relationship and I don’t know how to get out So please don’t judge) well we have cheated together ( I’m not proud but it helped me know I’m getting out relationship) he said he didn’t want to date obviously. And he doesn’t date. However he has an ex in the picture that he talks to like they are dating. Well honestly i was about to leave my boyfriend for this guy ( he seemed like he secretly wants me to anyway) we’ll all of a sudden he starts talking to his ex again. And had Thanksgiving with her. Me and him hook up and we are co coworkers and I know he likes me but now he won’t hook up with me anymore. I think because of his ex however he doesn’t have a problem with always trying to tell people about me and bragging about me and touching me. I’ll ask to hang out he will pretend he wants to but then when it comes down to it he makes excuses. He even said I needed to chill out because I’m overthinking it. But he’s acting funny. Yet will say he wants me and stuff it’s like he doesn’t want me to leave him alone yet won’t hook up ( and he said I give him the best head and sex ever) he says we are talking to so what does that even mean? My situation is messy af ik but I just don’t know what to do. Anytime we are at work he always tries to get my attention and always wants to touch meand talk so what gives why won’t he hang out with me anymore and he even claims he want to sowhy doesn’t he?

I’ve been friends with this girl since we were little. We call ourselves best friends but it always seems like she treats me lower than her. Everything I do she has to one up me or pretend she does it too... She even made me walk by myself to her house because she wanted “alone time” with her boyfriend when WE WERE ALL WALKING TO THE SAME PLACE. She’s made me walk in the rain by myself when she got a ride, and made an excuse as to why I couldn’t come in the car with her.

She does this stuff a lot, and she is ALWAYS with her boyfriend, and she’s ALWAYS asking for attention by being “goth” and saying she’s depressed, suicidal, has OCD + anxiety, and has vertigo and tons of other illnesses that SHE HASN’T EVEN BEEN DIAGNOSED WITH. And the reason she hasn’t gone yet is cuz she knows it’s for attention. She’s also already had sex with 3 guys and we’re only 15!

Don’t get me wrong though... we’ve been best friends forever and I’ve let her ways fly, but I’m considering just dropping her now. She’s actually sleeping over as I type this, she went to bed early. She’s mad at me because we didn’t do what we planned on doing.

I won’t have many other friends if I drop her because she’s one of my few friends... But I think it’s best. What do you guys think?

Well it all started as a friend well honestly I don't know what is it’s. Basically we are coworkers who confessed our like for each other. He told me he liked me the first day he saw me and even came to visit me on his day off for no reason. Fast forward to 4 months later we had sex and stuff and I got him an expensive gift for his bday. He told me he can’t express his feelings at all and suppress them and no one knows about him and even his family doesn’t know about him. I liking a challenge knew I could get him to open up. We wanted this to be strictly sex however he says things like 1. Thinking I meant by feelings I meant love and he got confused and said he couldn’t fall in love with me unless we hung out more. when I gave him the gift he looked so happy and like he was into me and then bam fell of the earth for a little. He then got drunk told me he liked me but how he act sober is different. We then hung out at his house and he started spilling little details about his life (even tho he said he doesn’t) I told him everything he is worried about in life is okay and he’s gonna be okay he then gave me this look like he really liked me he kept telling me to stay after we hooked up and we talked about real life stuff and it seemed he really liked me he started calling me texting me back then out the blue BAM dissaperead again. I’d ask him to hang he’d pretend he wanted to hang and then crickets. He did this 3 times so I texted him for a couple of days with no response. 4 texts and nothing. I don’t get him...

Well it all started as a friend well honestly I don't know what is it’s. Basically we are coworkers who confessed our like for each other. He told me he liked me the first day he saw me and even came to visit me on his day off for no reason. Fast forward to 4 months later we had sex and stuff and I got him an expensive gift for his bday. He told me he can’t express his feelings at all and suppress them and no one knows about him and even his family doesn’t know about him. I liking a challenge knew I could get him to open up. We wanted this to be strictly sex however he says things like 1. Thinking I meant by feelings I meant love and he got confused and said he couldn’t fall in love with me unless we hung out more. when I gave him the gift he looked so happy and like he was into me and then bam fell of the earth for a little. He then got drunk told me he liked me but how he act sober is different. We then hung out at his house and he started spilling little details about his life (even tho he said he doesn’t) I told him everything he is worried about in life is okay and he’s gonna be okay he then gave me this look like he really liked me he kept telling me to stay after we hooked up and we talked about real life stuff and it seemed he really liked me he started calling me texting me back then out the blue BAM dissaperead again. I’d ask him to hang he’d pretend he wanted to hang and then crickets. He did this 3 times so I texted him for a couple of days with no response. 4 texts and nothing. I don’t get him...

Maybe it was a childish thing to say but I'm kinda immature about sex talk.

So he was talking about a lose lose situation and said how either way you go you're screwed. Any angle and you're gonna get hurt...I was thinking so wrong because the words sounded sexual so I just started laughing. He was dead serious and didn't see what was so funny.
So I told him "Sorry, but that just sounds so wrong and inappropriate... you said screwed at any angle!"


He didn't seem uncomfortable but rather unphased. Like he didn't get it or just pretended not to, and I guess I made the convo awkward because I saw him later in the day and tried to say hi but he completely ignored me 😳😅😂😂