Search Results: we are not in an official relationship

Why does he send so many mixed signals?

there's a guy I go to school with, Im in college, we're good friends we hang out a lot All of our friends see that we have chemistry. He is always telling me Im pretty and cool etc. When we work together in groups he...

roseali

Xper 4 Age: 27

Relationships

What would you do if you were dealing with him?

So the guy I've been seeing for a very long time, he's like my boyfriend but not really official, is just a different kind of guy. You have the guys who don't care and show it and then you have the guys who do care and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Is it normal for him to be posting on other girls pictures, calling them gorgeous, etc?

I've known this guy for around five months. He expressed early on that he liked me, I said I could only be friends, and he said it was okay and that he wanted me around in any form. Things eventually changed; we got...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Ex-boyfriend's new girlfriend blocked me om facebook?

Basically, my ex-bf and I work together. That's how it was at the beginning of our relationship, when things really started to pick up with us, and because of that, we had to break things up - management found out, and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Why not mention an ex that you want when you start to get involved with someone else?

I met a girl through mutual contacts a little over a month ago. We talked / texted over the phone very regularly for about 3 or 4 days, then had a date. So far as I thought, we really hit it off. Contact and seeing...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

How do I become more outgoing and fun; as a 20 year old who is overweight and grew up conservative?

Hello I would appreciate some advice; I’m a 20 year old female i'm currently in my first year of university and i'm quite an introvert! Even though I do converse with individuals and have quite a few acquaintances I still...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

He started to pull away, but then asked me to be patient?

I've been dating this guy for two months, and things progressed rather quickly. We started seeing each other quite frequently and he was very sweet, fun, and kind. Over the past two weeks he has gotten progressively...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

So what if you become an absolute tyrant in your country?

If you had unlimited powers, what would you change in your country? What would be your policies? I have a list of 10 things that i would do: 1) Make the country to have an official religion: Catholicism. Tighter...

KnightCross

Xper 7 Age: 22

Relationships

Does my boyfriend just have poor communication skills, or is it something else?

Let me just start by saying that my boyfriend of 2 1/2 months has always been a little bit of an odd duck. He's attractive, friendly, likes to have a good time, and is social; but can be a bit of a social recluse (playing...

Toocyute89

Xper 3 Age: 36

Break Up & Divorce

My ex-girlfriend (19YO) friendzoned me (22YO) after 2 years, starting to date someone (30YO) after 2 weeks. Should I go no contact?

My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years (which is pretty rare at our age I believe). We had a strong relationship but after a fight about the fact that I'm not feeling alright about spending time with a guy who...

Wazikhiel

Xper 4 Age: 31

Other

Alternate Realistic Scenarios That Could Have Happened

Most alternate history works of fiction focus on one alternate outcome, usually world domination by the axis during WWII. However, that seems over exaggerated. It's so cliché. Scenario 1: Central Power Victory WWI 1.)...

ADFSDF1996

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Why do some guys not like to make things official in a relationship?

its practically a relationship but only wants to call it a thing, refuses to call me his girlfriend. is it just an open relationship this way?

ClassyClaudia

Xper 7 Age: 26

Dating

Is it possible to be "too hot"?

I went out to dinner with a very close and trusted guy friend of mine. We started talking about life, relationships, etc just catching up on life. I was telling him about my most recent breakup... this guy and I talked...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

My psycho ex messed up my current relationship? Lost a love of my life because of her?

Anonymous

(30-35)

I was with my ex for 4 years, it was a high school relationship. I was heart broken after but we would just fight and i needed to venture. Anyway i moved to America - New York and met

I was with my ex for 4 years, it was a high school relationship. I was heart broken after but we would just fight and i needed to venture. Anyway i moved to America - New York and met a gorgeous girl who just captivated me. I loved everything about her. I meet her a year after breaking up with my ex. We both dated from the get go, 4 months. I didn't want to make it official because i didn't want my ex to go psycho on this girl and also my work situation wasn't steady and i was likely moving in 1 months. Anyway, she stuck around. Another month went by but then she brought up what we were. I then told her that i got the job in Arizona and i think its best we break things off because long distance sucks and i didn't want heartbreak and to put a time frame on us. We we split. She felt lead on but wished me well. I believe someone then told my ex and all of a sudden she was heading to Arizona in 2 months to work there with friends. I move for work going nc with the newyork girl then my ex contacts me to go for drinks with her and her mates. I went more to give my ex closure. Im guessing the New York girl found out through photos my ex put on Facebook, next day im not her friend on Facebook anymore. I was instantly upset. Because she didn't tell me why. My number was also blocked. I then told my ex off and told her we need to stop and decided to take her and her family off my facebook. Its been 8 months now and i get word im heading back to new york for work. I contacted the girl by letting her best friend know on fb that im coming back. I then get an email a week later from the ny girl saying that she 'will always care about me' and she 'doesnt play games' and she 'doesnt want to make me jealous because its highschool crap'. However at the end of the email she put 'best wishes'. Which to me implies for me yo leave her alone. I want her back. I dont want to scare her awayIm at a crossroads. Which option should i take?

Sorry its so long, i guess im just in need of advice...

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Relationships

My boyfriend cheated on me in revenge because I slept with someone before we were together, was this wrong of him?

My now boyfriend recently cheated on me in revenge because I had slept with someone before we had became official, had a title or commitment towards each other, however in a small amount of time we did create a lot of...

Keeeeks

Xper 4 Age: 28

My now boyfriend recently cheated on me in revenge because I had slept with someone before we had became official, had a title or commitment towards each other, however in a small

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Guy's Behavior

Guys, Why isn't he talking to me anymore?

I broke up with a guy say Ty, even though we weren't in an official relationship. I told Ty I wanted to stay friends but now, he doesn't reach out to me anymore. Ty used to always say hi and talk to me but now, all he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

If he hasn't made it official in 6 months, will he ever?

6 months is half a year, and if he hasn't decided he wants to be with me by now, I'm assuming he'll never decide if he wants to be. He has told me he isn't interested in dating anyone else and has no intentions of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Has he gotten cold feet?

So me and this guy have been on and off for a while. We were never in an official relationship because every time we got close to that stage one of us would mess up and what we had would go cold for a while... after a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Where do I stand?

I met this guy, we've become friends but we do have a strong connection. He asked me to come out drinking with him and we had a massive night , came home and ended up sleeping together. He has come from another state and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Im with a girl but I am not over my ex? Help?

So my ex and i have been broken up for a year now. Since then we have broken contact but just recently have started seeing each other around town. We however can't really get back together because im not permanent in her...

Anonymous

(30-35)