Basically, my ex-bf and I work together. That's how it was at the beginning of our relationship, when things really started to pick up with us, and because of that, we had to break things up - management found out, and made us end things because he was offered a promotion and promoted nonetheless. It was very easy for him to break things off with me, and I knew he had been talking to another girl/girls at the time, but never said anything. Long story short, he's in another relationship and made this one official - even though they've only been together for a momth and we were for three months straight, but he never wanted to fully commit to me (so I guess he's not an ex-bf, but it was still all the same). A coworker got involved and told him it would be best if he lost all contact with me on social media, so he blocked me on Facebook (not on Instagram though, where we did the majority of our communication, otherw than through text). I went to look up his girlfriend's profile, to see more about her - out of curiousity - and it hadn't popped up. I did a general search, and she had blocked me too as well. He always had a big issue with me telling people we were together, so I never did. I never told that coworker anything, but he clearly did if she knew all that she did. And then had to guts to tell me his happiness is all that matters and I need to move on with my life (which I have done). That's why it hurts when he got another relationship so damn fast, and was with me for 3 months while he was saying we'd see where things go.
Updates
+1 y
He's been telling people at work that she's a nice girl and is really pretty, that he really likes her (which he told people prior to about me), she cooks for him, and she comes over all the time (which is another weird thing to me - at 19, I wouldn't even be telling anyone those things about my relationship at 31 years old). Because I don't see why that matters. I'm not sure if he's telling people just so they stop talking to him and asking about me, or if he's just trying to prove a point. Maybe he's
Updates
+1 y
happy, but I don't see why I need to be involved or brought up with his girlfriend in order for her to have frickin blocked me. It just doesn't really make sense to me at all...
Most Helpful Opinions