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Ok, I don't mean if you're already happily married or something, but imagine there was a girl with whom you felt ideal and she was near-perfect and everything, you trusted her and she understood you the best, she appreciated your little weirdnesses, she was the first girl to whom you opened yourself. She was also very beautiful and smart and fun, kind, trustworthy. But you chickened out and gave up on her even before there was something between you two because you were afraid of a relationship and didn't want to commit. But you still wanted to talk to her so much, at least for some first months. Would she ever mean nothing to you or would you always have some unfinished business or a "thing" for her?

I've been reading and researching on narcissists (narcissistic personality disorder) and psychopaths (antisocial personality disorder). According to some sources they could, when combined total up to 10% of the population. The nature of their disorders make them completely incapable of/very limited in empathy, it makes them sadistic, delusional/fake and unpredictable. They are stereotypically represented by your classic bullies/mean girls, your run of the mill serial killers, the trailer trash wife-beaters...

What surprises me though is that most of their victims are not aware they are very good at upholding masks and in 95% of the cases have a polished "ideal citizen" persona, cannot be cured according to many experienced people in the field (therapy only making them more adept at manipulating) and are usually the people in the community most adamant about showing others how good they are, most of them rarely breaking a law in their life.

Are you aware? What do you think about this?

I am classified as XXL with those measurements. My question could someone like some who is XXL or Not. Is body size really a big deal breaker for most men? Would you not like a woman because she has hips or because she doesn't? If had too big boobs or barely any? Opinions very much appreciated! Tell me what you think!

I like to consider myself very kind, caring and nurturing. I have good confidence when it comes to this and my looks. But sometimes I feel like my height is holding me back. I've had plenty of guys that said I was totally ideal and they would date me if I was just a little shorter. Even guys taller than me have said this. It really sucks because height is something I can't change. Why do you think this is? would you ever date a girl at my height considering that was the only barrier? Also how tall are you (male or female) and what are your height restrictions/barriers? Also, why do you have height barriers. I personally have them myself because of personal insecurities.