Search Results: engaged and flirting

So my name's A, I'm a awkward guy, not gonna lie, I've had one girlfriend in my sixteen years of life, she was my world. We broke up a few months ago after 5-6 weeks. Right now I've opened up a little more about my sexuality which has allowed me to engage with girls better then ever, which has its advantages, as well as its disadvantages. At the moment I'm talking to two girls mainly, I talk to both of them all the time, one of them had told me they like me, the other one is dating someone but she constantly sends me pictures of her body and flirts and stuff. I don't know what to do because what if I pick the single one and the other one wants to date me but just won't tell me, but what if her boyfriend finds out were talking and wants to fight. I just, I don't know anymore. I'd appreciate some help...

I've approached many girls (and boys, and etc., yay pansexuality!), in attempt to flirt, engage conversation, try to befriend them or try to commit to something more. And I've tried many different approaches, corny jokes, lame pick up lines, classic cheesy stuff, straight forward requests and many more.

Except, nothing seems to work (not that I'm an ugly monster or anything). Which made me feel like, everyone is only accepting of a lottery-level luck of hitting every sweet spot, at the exact time, exact place and pace. And even though, I've had some lucky rolls, I've been ditched because I quote "You're so good, it's creepy - you're too good. It's suspicious... Have you been stalking me?".

Nobody's really given me a chance, and I'm left with this impression that unless the person lands a lottery jackpot, there will be broken hearts. So I wonder if it's just me growing in a flowerpot, or there's something more to it.

Do YOU give your potential partner a thorough chance to examine them and test them out, or just bail out the moment it doesn't prove to be dazzlingly perfect?

I included a poll, to see how sound my idea is. Which choice do you allign with most?