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Me and my boyfriend had only been going out around a month when I went on my first girls holiday. During the holiday we got talking to some lads- very innocently. My girlfriends that we're taken shyed away and didn't speak to them. I stayed and chatted with my single friend.

Me and one of the guys got talking about politics (exciting I know haha!) but because the music was so loud I could barely hear him and so had to put my ear to his mouth to hear him. He was sitting on a table and I was leaning over him. I can understand how it looked. I was almost lying on top of him because of the way he was slouched on the table. It was all very innocent I wasn't interested or even attracted the guy.

My friends who were in a relationship got mad at me and accused me of cheating. The barmen who we had gotten to know throughout the holiday made fun of me and called me 'rapey'.

My boyfriend knows about it and got a little off with me about it for the whole of 5 minutes but my friends still make me feel terrible for it now, 2 years on. I feel like they're judging me and see me as a cheat.

I was quite drunk but knew what I was saying, doing and can remember the whole night, I just wasn't thinking about how it LOOKED. At the same time though I don't think I should be restricted to only talking to girls/ignoring guys who happen to get talking to us because I have a boyfriend. That's exactly what my girls friends do and although I don't think they mean it and I don't think they are against people who are taken speaking to the opposite sex that aren't friends, I feel they judge me/look down on me for doing so when in reality I'm only having a bit of fun and getting to know others- even when drunk I still love my boyfriend and would never cheat.

My boyfriend and I started dating in high school and are going into out second year of college now. There's this girl at his school who is so pretty and extremely nice, basically perfect. His school is pretty small so everyone knows everyone and all the guys obsess over her because she doesn't hook up with anyone and is "hard to get". Well she and my boyfriend have been snapchatting a lot and it's back and forth for hours sometimes. He claims they're just friends and I trust that he won't cheat on me but I'm scared she's taking it a different way and actually has feelings for him. He mostly just sends funny faces but she gets like personal about her like and He tries to hide it sometimes from me but anytime I look over as he's texting or taking a picture, it's to her. I just don't like this feeling. I'm kinda jealous that she's getting so much attention from him, I feel like when you're in a relationship you should give another girl more attention than your own girlfriend. it's not like that all the time but sometimes it is and I don't like it. I'm not sure what to do about this, I'm scared for when August rolls around and he goes back to school. what if she tries to make a move? I'm scared to talk to him about it because I do trust him and he can have friends that are girls.. I just don't like how close they are.. it seems a little to intimate of a friendship for a guy with a girlfriend. Guys, is this normal? Should I be nervous? what should I do?

we were friends since i was in high school. he had a girlfriend. he started being close to me.. than the girlfriend cheated and a whole bunch of other things so they broke up. he started asking me out since i was 12. I never wanted to date him cause he flirts around with girls a lot. And, if i became his girlfriend i would have been just one on the list. well, that's how i felt like. my dad is a pastor and my whole family is really integrated in the church. so my parents know him, and he knows them.
he used to come to my house sometimes ect... when he finished high school, he moved to the capital for University, and he'll barely talk to me or text me and when he comes back he'll tell me that i'm not close to him anymore. well, i'm not gonna be available for people only when they need me so.. bt once in a while he'll still talk to me and ask me to be his girlfriend...
when i finished high school, my family and I moved to another continent. we'll talk on fb but not for long, and then we didn't talk for like a year. no hi no nothing...

then he wrote me one day... and i was like i thought you died.. lol we always joke around... then he asked me if i had a boyfriend.. i said no cause i didn't... but told him i actually like a guy and all... so i asked him wassup with him? he told me that he got dumped.. the girl was moving to US (the story sounds like she was getting rid of him since she's going abroad) anyways... so he was like the two girls he's in love with don; want him. and i was like, you could have just forgiven the first one.. and he was like: you know i'm not talking about her.. and again this talk started again, me not wanting to be his girlfriend ect...

this year i got a better phone finally.. lol so we've been chating almost everyday for like a few months then we fought over something and he stopped texting...

when i ask him why he likes/loves me? He doesn't even know. he'll just tell me u r special blabla
it feels like a big lie to me...