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I just noticed that since there's a lot of natural redhead girls in my school that I personally know and many of them have completely different personalities. They go from just your average girl, to emo, to gothic girl, to typical hothead, to class clown and to video game nerds.

One of my best friends, who's a redhead girl, is probably the biggest video gamer girl I know than anyone else (she's obsessed with Pokemon). As for my experience with other caucasian with different natural hair color groups or different ethnic groups such as blonde women, most tend to be a little too similar and dull personality wise and with black women, it's almost the same.

So at work I have been talking to the girl I like for 2 months out of the 10 months I've been there. I have social anxiety so thats why I just started talking to her then. I've even told her that I have that. After 2 weeks of knowing her I hear co workers teasing her about this guy she's dating (not in a relationship) so I felt discouraged. that same day I asked her what she was up to that weekend and I was like "not with your boyfriend?" and she said"oh you heard that?" so she said they are not in a relationship and so on. so I told her I was going to ask for her number to get to know her more but if that was the case I rather not. so we didn't get to talk for 5 days when we did I apologized to her if I made her feel uncomfortable and she said I was fine. fast forward 3 weeks ago, whenever I asked her how she was doing she would say "Oh im great" in a sarcastic way, she did that 2 more times until I told myself if she responded like that again I would just say ok and walk away because she would sound happy and full of life with everyone else but me. So the next time I saw her she responded in a happy voice and all that. then she would tease me about things I like like star wars and call me a nerd while she smiled, she would say anything I did or liked made me nerdy in a joking manner with a smile on her face while staring at me. she did this and still teases me like this from time to time. sometimes I will catch her staring at me at small intervals Today I said where you been? she said oh just hiding but she would still talk different to me. she told me how is not fair that I get to leave at 7pm while she leaves at 10pm. I would try to cheer her up by telling her that I went to the office to get a pen but instead I got tape, or that I wrote "or nah" instead of "or not" in a college paper. she told me that I really humor myself a lot while smiling. then i told her bye and to just be happy bc I care about her. what do you guys take from this and any advice?